XiaCobalt

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[–] XiaCobalt@hexbear.net 5 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

spoilerI mean you probably know this but Blanchard's typology has been extensively disproven. Cis women want to be perceived as attractive women during sex as well. It's normal to be wanted to be perceived as your correct gender and attractive.

Blanchard allegedly also was a notorious chaser who allegedly had sex with his study subjects (it's important to remember that Sexologist is a non clinical area of science without real ethical oversight like doctors or psychologists and also Blanchard is still alive, so this all just things that have been simply alleged). Blanchard also identifies as gay man. If this is true, then suddenly his typology seems like "trans women who will have sex with me are good homosexuals and trans women who won't are perverted straights"

I'm a trans woman and lesbian. I did used to find a lot of these caricatures quite upsetting too. I'm a tall girl with some body hair. But I care much less now because I have a girlfriend who is trans and 2 other lovers (plus like 2-3 more prospective ones on the horizon), all of them are trans women. They are all beautiful and amazing women like I am.