Heheh yeah that hits the spot! What about this one?
There's this part of me that goes like
┌ ┐
│2.0 0.0 0.0 0.0│
│0.0 1.5 0.0 0.0│
│0.0 0.0 1.0 0.0│
│2.0 0.0 0.0 1.0│
└ ┘
Want to see what it does next?
Haha, somehow there is always a relevant XKCD.
Yeah that's a good point. Lemmy userbase in general might be biased. Definitely feel bad for all the women genuinely interested in tech fields who have to put up with the sausage fest shenanigans.
Yeah, you aren't obligated to like anal. And there are several reasons for (not) wanting to do it.
You're not even required by international sexual law to be even remotely interested in sticking your dick in anything. You do you, but be safe when you do!
But just for context, for most people who engage in anal (both giving and receiving end), the feeling of taboo is part of the fun.
The Dutch are usually pretty good at announcing their presence, as they will flock to anything even remotely associated with their country. Just look at the comments on a Not Just Bikes video and you'll see for yourself.
They're also massive shitposters, so expect to find them in the less serious parts of the fediverse.
Both provide great strategies to pull them out of hiding.
Oh thank you for this! I definitely want to actively explore further, and I don't really think of it as gatekeeping myself behind the right label.
It's mostly me being conscious and afraid of making decisions that have a lasting impact, like coming out (even if it's just about the fact that I'm figuring things out). Physical changes that can't easily be reversed are still a ways away.
But I will try to take your advice to heart and allow myself to take some steps. There's always the option of chickening out, right?