[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 14 hours ago

30 or 32d or dd I would guess. They fit the rest of you, so proportionate size is another way to put it.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 14 hours ago

We have sex at least once a day, every day since we got together. Once you start you may not want to stop, it's great.

I want to modify no shave November and stop plucking my legs so they can heal - it was my workaround to stop other crappy anxious habits.

I think it's good to do oddball fast, always do a Dry July, no drinking, and a no Amazon August, no online buying of anything. It's kind of impossible to do either once the holiday season starts, so good to sort of reset. Would never fast from sex though, not voluntarily.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I don't think it looks that weird. I would say just shave the parts you want & trim the parts you want. Husband shaves balls but trims the rest, it's fine except day-of (sharp stubble is rough) but he has finer textured hair. I (F) just shave everything down there because we haven't had funds for waxing but my hair is more coarse so it's an every day or two thing.

Basically I think even a kind of sudden transition won't look silly, pubes are already a transition if you leave them alone, unless you really have a pelt.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 22 points 2 months ago

For original content: If you can't say something nice, don't say anything.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 42 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Best vaginal penetration 10/10 - face to face angled so there is some stimulation of vulva too, that is the most physically pleasurable way to get off.

Best anal is just not hurting, maybe 5, not bad not great, it's only good if the guy likes it, and isn't too big - I had a partner hung long but not thick, it felt pretty good with him but:

Both? One guy in ass and one in vagina? So good. It does add to the pleasure in that situation, certainly. Like 11/10. But the one in the ass kind of still not the more active.

ETA: I also really like when guys prefer vaginal, like you do. Even if they like both, even if they are bi, if they get off easiest in the pussy and prefer it that is the hottest feeling.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 16 points 6 months ago

Small boobs != underage, and most places you can't get body piercings until you are of age. God I hate when guys think small boobs are underdeveloped. They aren't, they are small. They work the same as the big ones, same equipment in there, less fat.

Now do some posts play up the pretend underage thing? Yes and yep that's gross. This one isn't, though I do agree low effort post.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 19 points 6 months ago

I'm a lady, and think that the expectation that men ought not be too emotional is absolutely damaging and unreasonable and am not sure how it still persists.

The second shift - get yourself a single dad, ladies! And a cleaning service for the biweekly bigger cleaning. I don't have that problem. We do each have half a second shift because that stuff doesn't go away, but it's shared, and I didn't need to explain that it exists.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 16 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

First, be gentle with yourself. I think if you are marrying someone, you want them to know about all the aspects of your sexuality even if they feel neutral about some of them.

I think you will just have to straight up tell her one of your pleasures is posting pics online, first ask if she likes to do that herself, ask if she wants to see yours when you do. If you personally don't think you've done anything that crosses a line please don't borrow trouble. As long as you are ok if she enjoys the same, I think you are good. Sooner is better for this.

Oh, and I know you say that the relationship is more important than the kink, but you are a whole package. You can't be someone else, she is getting you. You say that embracing this side of your sexuality has brought you confidence, it must be important. What you are saying (I think) is that you don't need her to be enthusiastic and turned on by it, or directly participate, you can easily enjoy sex with her however she likes or needs, and be satisfied and happy, that makes sense. But you do need her to love you for who you are.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 21 points 7 months ago

Sexy - When a guy is really good at something and not at all cocky about it. That understated competence.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 18 points 7 months ago

On average maybe once a day? There just aren't as many good looking men wandering around, as there are good looking women. Maybe that is a selective brain thing but I don't think so. My bisexual kids and friends say the same thing.

Isolated body parts, no, not really. But when I see a guy around my age who has taken good care of himself and is hot, yeah.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 39 points 9 months ago

What I miss is normal nudes, the subreddit. The place for unposed nudes to show different body types, anybody, no boners and no advertising for your paid site; with a "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all unless poster asked specifically for critique" comment policy.

Also nakedprogress. I miss the nonsexual nudes sites I guess.

Other than that, I don't think what else I want is possible, all NSFW sites are just guy driven with nearly everything for men's taste. That I don't think can be adjusted if the audience is overwhelmingly male.l, it's not a problem with lemmynsfw, just a state of the world thing.

I think it's going OK overall, growing slowly and organically seems the way to go.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 23 points 1 year ago

I am a (heterosexual) woman and the only porn I really like is D/s stuff. Threesomes if MFM or MMf (2 dom bi guys, one subby lady) But video is least favorite media. Written stories > pictures > video.

In real life nothing is actually hotter than one on one, it's the gold standard. Plain ol sex is great. Everything else is good but mostly because it makes that plain sex afterwards so hot. But power dynamics works best for fantasy, always has and I guess always will.

The girl/girl stuff id imagine it's because we believe the women are actually getting off, and it's easier to buy in. I don't enjoy it though, so can't say for sure.

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