FriendOfDeSoto

joined 2 years ago

No, I don't know which one. And I don't want to watch people get hurt so I won't seek it out either. There are incidents in this world that fit the theory of the bystander effect. That is not what I question. I'm questioning your calculation of odds regarding intervention. There are enough examples of "heroes without capes" that did intervene as well, also within groups of people.

A shower thought doesn't have to be well thought through. On the flip side, you don't have to double down on it when folks point out the flaws.

[–] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website 14 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)

The bystander effect is a theory, not fact. It can explain after the fact why people in groups feel less responsibility to do something. But it isn't universally applicable to all assaults in public. There are many variables at play. So "highly unlikely" is an exaggeration in my view.

[–] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website 4 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

So what did the dog find? What? WHAT DID THE DOG FIND? TELL. ME. I HAVE TO KNOW!

That's just YouTube speak. The implied drama gets them more clicks. It's how to frame the ancient medium of public debate for millenials and genz. It's like YouTubers pulling the dumbest, silliest possible face on the thumbnail. It'll have more views too.

It's also a sign of the times since Y2K that you couldn't just have an enlightening discussion. Somebody has to get owned. Hitchens was forthright in his rhetoric but I never heard him be disrespectful. I've only ever seen him tracking the ball, not the players. But that's boring so people add their own spice to it. And they tend to cut out any counter arguments if the footage was from a public debate.

You should add your age for context. You're either a normal adolescent/young adult figuring shit out like all of us have to. Or you can consider yourself part of the spectrum, maybe in aceflux. You can do that at any age to be fair. I would just wait until maybe ~25 before you make your own identity ruling here. And keep in mind stuff changes over time still even after you've reached that age, maybe just at a slower pace.

In the end, you do you. I would recommend honesty with your partners. They could be pretty pissed when they find out by accident that you've been more like holding your proverbial nose to enable intercourse.

[–] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website 17 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Having info on the heliocentric solar system could land you in a dungeon or worse back in the day.

This is too simplistic. I know conservative voters who didn't vote for 47, many not even for 45. Conservative is a value set and the Venn diagram of that with MAGA is far from a perfect overlap. If you replace "conservatives" with "47's cult-like followers" I would come closer to agreeing with your take. I do take issue with "everyone else" though. I think that doesn't hit the mark either. I think there is more purple between this red team/blue team thinking than there are both extremes of this scale added together. Stop digging deeper trenches. And don't shoot your political opponents.

I feel like so-called AI was the least impactful variable in this clusterfuck.

I fear you either misunderstand my comment or what martyrdom means. I'm no fan of the man who got shot. And for me he'll never be a martyr. But those who did like him can now hail him as such, make him a hero - for all the other people who liked him. Martyrdom is in the eye of the beholder.

[–] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

When and where did you go to school? That capital A that looks more like the lowercase one I've only ever seen from people from North America.

[–] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website 10 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Whoever wrote this was probably still in school and I would guess in a North American one because of the cursive they wrote in. I think they also copied the text, badly, and that explains the mistakes.

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