Edwardrotik

joined 2 years ago
[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 2 hours ago

In one go, never wearing any clothes at all, it would have been a week, plus or minus a few hours.

Went to stay with some like minded people for a vacation on private property at the beach. No need for clothes at all as the weather was lovely, the grounds were fenced for privacy, and plenty of supplies were laid in for everyone. Most people there didn't bother to wear anything at all. Some wore a robe, though rarely tied, instead of carrying a towel or other cloth barrier.

It was definitely a getaway for sex in various forms, but even with the dozen odd couples and handful of singles invited, there were plenty of breaks for other activities. Some would make a trip outside the property to go down to the actual beach, and would slip into swimwear, but once I rid myself of the clothes, I found I didn't want to put them back on, so never went down, except for one moonlight excursion.

Most of the non sexual time was quiet music, movies, games, and conversation.

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 8 points 3 months ago

Not because of quality, but I had the horrible luck of running into a woman at a couple swap party that had white supremacist tattoos. I noped out, grabbed my partner, and left.

I'm not talking a little thing that might have been a youthful mistake, I'm talking a back piece, neck to ass and all the way across, nazi crap.

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 15 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I wouldn't call them tiny at all, but they also aren't huge. They're lovely though :)

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 3 months ago

Oh, I dunno, I guess if they're into the daddy vibe, it would feel pretty good. But I'm not into guys, and if I was, I'd be a top

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 3 months ago

I'm fairly sure the fishnets would flex a little.

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Bold of you to assume we need to rip a hole ;)

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 3 months ago

I very briefly dated a kqueen at one point. Can't say it was that fun. I very much enjoy all kinds of things, including group play. I enjoy a fair percentage of my play to be dominance related. But the whole cuck scene is very difficult and demanding, while also being boring. It's such a narrow kink

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I'm a guy, and not into guys. But that is a great pic. You obviously took some time and effort to set it up, and it was well spent.

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 20 points 3 months ago

I have a "rule"

I will gladly enjoy what someone shared in scale with the apparent intent of the material.

So, a pretty woman sharing a clothed picture (even if the clothing is very sexy), isn't something I'm going to enjoy on a sexual level. I might think for a bit that it would be nice if she shared more than that, but that's where it ends.

If a woman shares a picture of her in clothing, but does so while saying something like "guess what I look like under this", that's a direct invitation to fantasize.

This means that the regular selfie on your profile isn't something that would normally lead me to sexual thoughts. And it didn't this time because the way you asked the question was interesting enough that I wanted to think about that rather than enjoy the implied permission to enjoy it sexually via fantasy.

I've never been the kind to sexualize pictures of women that weren't already sexual. I have no idea why, but even bikinis and lingerie pics never seemed sexual to me.

Don't get me wrong, I very much enjoy such pictures! But it's more the way I enjoy a painting, or someone dancing. It's beautiful, but not sexual for me.

Tbh, I don't even assume outright nudes are sexual any more. I used to, but when all those celebrities' pictures got leaked years ago, it made me rethink that. Now, if I know the person didn't share the images, I avoid them. If the picture looks like they may not have intended to share it with everyone, it's the same thing.

Not sure if you wanted that kind of response, but that's my take on things. You're very pretty though, and if you ever decide to share more of your body with the world, I'm quite sure they will make fpr wonderful fantasies.

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 3 months ago

Yup.

He had had some kind of injury that left scarring and bent it like that

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 3 months ago

Same reason boogers are. And mucilage.

Protein!

You suspend some proteins in some water, and you got glue

[–] Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 4 months ago

Oh, absolutely a demand.

The problem is that it's a very complicated thing, and that means you can't just gonna someone willing, they have to have the experience and skill as well, or it's going to end up bad.

It really isn't something most doms are into as their own kink. Picking up the "tricks if the trade" means having to spend your own time learning something instead of having fun for your own ends, if it isn't also your kink. That's as rare as finding a dom that has the kink tbh.

Back when I participated in the local scene, the feminization side of things was fairly rare, and not part of what most bdsm groups did when they met.

That being said, it can be fun to take part in, even if it isn't your kink. I have done scenes with sissies before, and while it isn't something I would want to do regularly, particularly if it involves sexual intercourse (be it oral or anal), even that is fine for the occasional bit of experimentation to get out of the comfort zone.

That's where most doms I've known stand on it. It's not their main focus because it really is a focus for a sissy. If you aren't doing that part of dominance, they tend to not be fulfilled by a session. It's kind of like pony play in that regard, you have to specialize in it to really get anything out of it long term.

But be patient. Be willing to communicate well with any potential dom so that there's no crossed wires. Doms that aren't used to the feminization genre of play can make mistakes that are easy to avoid if they're talked out in detail ahead of time. The few times I did it, I was lucky enough that the sissies I was playing with were very experienced and let me know what they needed rather than expecting me to magically know the ins and outs of it all. I know that breaks some of the immersion, but until you find a long term partner, that's the only way to go.

It comes down to the demand being much higher than the supply.

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