[-] CursedByTheVoid@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Yeah, kinda beating a dead horse here, but it's giving "2024, Year of the Linux Desktop, inadvertently sponsored by Microsoft."

[-] CursedByTheVoid@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Sure.

Then you get the occasional fun experience of a maintainer fucking up a package definition or two, and all of a sudden you can't update your system or run a program because there's a tangled mess of dependency conflicts and you get to spend the afternoon force reinstalling system libraries. Love ya' Void :')

Been trying NixOS which is great for avoiding that kind of thing, but it comes with it's own set of annoyances. I really ought to just settle on a more stable distro like Debian lol.

[-] CursedByTheVoid@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

From the MS website:

Recall utilizes Windows Copilot Runtime to help you find anything you’ve seen on your PC. Search using any clues you remember or use the timeline to scroll through your past activity, including apps, documents, and websites.

A "feature" coming to Windows 11. Essentially a keylogger on steroids... Powered by AI of course, because what isn't these days.

[-] CursedByTheVoid@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Apologies for the America-centric response, I know these ideas aren't limited to the states, it's just what I'm most familiar with.

Don't get me wrong, I'm no fan of neo-liberals and I think they get a lot of justified flak for not doing enough, or what's right, and I absolutely understand not "voting for people who are able to shrug off my very existence". If I were in your shoes, I'd be in the "burn it all down" camp too.

In 2016, I wrote in Bernie Sanders out of principle, because he felt like the only candidate who genuinely cared about what was best for regular folks. I also thought the rhetoric around Trump was overstated, particularly, I thought the whole Antifa crowd was super cringe. I grew up in a conservative environment and none of the people I knew were actually fascists after all... Well, 8 years later... I have the hindsight to know that I was wrong. Fascism is alive and well, and it's thriving in my backyard.

I don't want to vote for Biden, his administration's handling of Israel and it's genocide is an affront to humanity and one more thing to add to the list of shit that makes me ashamed of this country; it's just that, in my eyes, the only other viable option is so much worse...

I wish I had the answers, any policies that could bring meaningful change to a two-party system are in the hands of people who have everything to gain from keeping things the same. I'd like to think that enough overt acts of civil disobedience could change things, but I don't think it's bad enough for most people to gather the numbers necessary to bring it about. We've been given just enough luxury to keep us placid, but not enough to allow us the time, money, or energy to air our grievances. It's a sorry state of affairs.

Anyway...

TL;DR, I respectfully dissent, but your experience is valid and I don't blame ya, hopefully things start looking up in our lifetime :P

Edit: I ~~missed~~ a word

[-] CursedByTheVoid@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

I get where you're coming from... but when the alternative is mask-off clerical fascism, it ain't a hard fuckin' choice.

Voting democrat is just plain harm reduction at this point, as laughable as that feels to say given present circumstances... But this shit show is what we're stuck with unless we can somehow convince the feckless bastards to implement a better system than first-past-the-post, so other parties actually stand a chance.

It won't happen, but neither will convincing over half of the population to vote third-party; and abstaining, while principled, only yields more voting power to Y'all Qaeda.

[-] CursedByTheVoid@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

But writing off the behavior of abusive women (or even well-meaning women with problematic behavior) as a factor is just as problematic as people assuming it’s all the fault of women.

Not saying I disagree, or that you're wrong; all people are capable of doing shitty things. But I'm curious what kind of abusive behavior you're alluding to here... the prompt posed in the original post?

While I typically don't like the prospect of sweeping generalizations, it seems to me that women have tried to convey these ideas "the nice way" for decades, and it has either fallen on deaf ears, or been met with intense scrutiny by people either maliciously or ignorantly missing the entire point. It's understandable why there's some vitriol in the way things are presented today.

[...] and that impacts both men and women, deeply.

100%, we're stronger as a society if men and women can find a way to work together to deal with the litany of other issues we're facing. But it's going to be hard to do that without first addressing the elephant in the room, which is that women feel unsafe in society as a direct consequence of the actions of men.

[-] CursedByTheVoid@lemmy.world 17 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I mean, I feel like that goes a lot deeper than some perceived slight by women...

Entertainment, and subsequently our culture, has crafted this notion that if you're kind to a woman, she's obligated to be your girlfriend or fuck you, and when it doesn't pan out like that in reality; young men are justifiably depressed and angry, just... at the entirely wrong thing. This is further expounded by the ever growing disconnect by people in general, a lot of young people feel lonelier than ever and end up turning to shit like dating apps, which are inherently superficial and not a good way to build authentic relationships. Failure on these platforms can lead to young men feeling like they aren't "good enough", and when a grifter like Tate comes along to tell them that it's actually just the women that are the problem, it's an easy dose of copium to ingest.

Suicide is a multi-faceted issue, and while the struggle to find meaningful relationships is certainly a contributor, I'd wager that the general sense of hopelessness, lack of opportunity, and increasingly fewer prospects for the future are far bigger factors to many young adults going through higher education or entering the workforce.

[-] CursedByTheVoid@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago

Already addressed this in another comment, just read the next sentence I wrote...

They're not comparable for a variety of reasons, even if you account for population; I kept both in, with that caveat, because they make two distinct points. And my "conclusion" was really only in respect to the violent crime statistics presented.

[-] CursedByTheVoid@lemmy.world 14 points 3 weeks ago

Now obviously, people don’t go traipsing into bear country every day, and we’re constantly around other humans, among a litany of other differences like population, motivation, or intelligence; so the stats on their own aren’t truly comparable.

Literally just had to read one more sentence, my guy. The point of bringing up the stats wasn't to compare them directly, rather I looked both up out of curiosity, and individually I think they make distinct points. The first being that bears aren't necessarily dangerous as we portray them to be, and the second being that men are more dangerous than we're willing to admit.

As a dude, I used to have the same knee-jerk reaction to these kinds of discussions: "Well I'm not dangerous, and none of the men I'm friends/family with are dangerous, so this must just be some man-hating tirade perpetrated by ignorant people".

But then you dig into the statistics, and you start talking to the women in your life about their lived experience, and you realize that far too many of us are fucking animals. The prospect of bringing a daughter into a world that not only ignores an obvious issue, but actively shames the people who are victimized and try to speak out against it, is terrifying. Do I always agree with the way women present their criticism? No, a portion of it does veer into senseless hate. But that doesn't mean that what they're saying on the whole is bullshit.

[-] CursedByTheVoid@lemmy.world 24 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Bear, easily.

A couple minutes of searching the web, you'll find some variance in the stats, but the general notion is that bears don't seem to be as dangerous as we portray them to be. The data aggregated here suggests that there were 48 fatalities in North America, in the span of 17 years. A few other places claim there have only been around ~180 bear fatalities in NA since the late 1700s, but I couldn't find any definitive sources, so take those with a grain of salt.

Bear in mind, this factoid isn't something we can stack up against men to answer this question, we don't encounter bears with the same frequency or density that we do people, nor do bears have the same nature or motivations as humans, but it's something I found along the way that I thought was interesting, and at least lends some credence to the idea that if you leave a bear the fuck alone, it will probably leave you the fuck alone.

On the back of that detour, I did a separate search, looking at the latest murder statistics I could find in the US. (Again, forgetting the bear stuff, making a different point here)

Personally, I found the data disturbing, 10,335 murders perpetrated by men in a single year, 7x that of women. Other violent crimes like rape are also tracked, albeit without offender sex, of which there were 122,822 in the same year; in a relatively "safe" country. If you look at it in relation to the entire population of ~328 million (at the time) you may be inclined to say "it's not that many" or "it's just a minority of men" (duh), but fellas... as someone with a dick and balls like you, I've never sat down and thought to myself "You know what sounds great right now? A good raping.", and I'm sure the majority of you haven't either, 1,000 rapes a year is too many, Nearing 123,000 is fucking egregious.

When I look at numbers like that, it's apparent to me that people are capable of being selfish, violent, motherfuckers in ways that some random bear in the forest never could. And unfortunately, men are overwhelmingly the perpetrators of that violence. If you take offense to that fact, and aren't an awful person yourself, then you need to wake the fuck up and take a look around. No one's accusing you specifically of being a rapist or a murderer, but there's a non-negligible trend here, and an uncomfortable truth that has yet to be sufficiently addressed; and that's the whole point of this thought experiment in the first place.

Edit 2

After receiving a few comments with similar criticisms, and after some additional reflection on what I initially wrote, I reworded and reorganized a solid chunk of this post to, I hope, clarify what my views are, include additional context, and ensure that people are clear that the two points of data (ie. bear fatalities and murder rates) are not intended to be compared, but rather they individually address separate statements I've seen echoed throughout this thread. My position hasn't changed, the conclusion hasn't changed, but hopefully this comes off a bit less inflammatory and more intellectually honest than before, it's not my intention to mislead anyone; just to get the cogs turning.

[-] CursedByTheVoid@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Probably because they do, at least in the realm of dietary choices. Choosing to slaughter billions of sentient creatures every year for food and accessorization, when the majority of us have an abundance of other options, is morally fucked... and this is coming from somebody who eats meat with some frequency.

Just because we like it, or because it's easier, or because it's "tradition" doesn't mean it's morally righteous, it just means we're selfish assholes 💀

When people lash out at vegans it always seems to boil down to some degree of cognitive dissonance... Eat meat and revel in the immorality if you so desire, no one's stopping you; but don't fucking lie to yourself, and don't get butthurt when someone holds a mirror up to your face. The loss of life, environmental impact, and the effects on our own health is enough justification to argue in favor of veganism, vegetarianism, or some other alternative that doesn't result in needless harm.

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