Beth

I need to feel safe and comfortable in someone's company. When I know I don't have to have sex and there's no pressure, that's when I feel free to be sexual.

I do like massages, touch and as others have said kissing -- but I do like when a guy is patient with me. That always helps tremendously to be relaxed and be myself with him.

Let me know if you figure this out

Where? Point them out!

So what have you been up to?

Hi yourself!

Thanks a lot for your Interesting comment! I'm a bit taken aback by how civil people are compared to other places. Other than one dude asking me if I want him to show me his PP (weird, what are we, 5 years old? 🥴) chilling here hasn't been stressful like other places, and I didn't feel defensive yet.

There is nothing wrong with being thirsty (I totally am at times 😁) but it just feels off if that comes out in a creepy or immature way.

Bookish guys are interesting. Hi yourself 😊

Thanks for your thoughts and recs 🙏

Yeah I'm noticing myself that Lemmy has a lot of (techy) people around. Just curious because it's a shame one website has monopoly over everything.

I don't think NSFW content is bad, I feel like in fact having different sections for NSFW posts makes community bigger because it attracts people.

I did notice that a lot of people have "sex is dirty" mindset (elsewhere not here) and then they can get pretty rude and underhanded like anything goes because basically they associate sex with something dark and secretive.

And I agree with you that in those instances having good mods is essential. It's a fine line how to mod properly but not scare folks away.

Fighting together 🙏

Where are ya'll hiding? 😊

💞

No, not at all. If anything I've gotten a few polite and friendly messages but nothing mean or arrogant (yet)

I just don't think there are that many users for NSFW communities to be super active.

Hey! Any recs? 😉