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[-] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com 14 points 5 months ago

In general?

I would say autistic fixations are intense interests, sometimes inappropriate things in the eyes of non autistic people, sometimes maybe just obscure.

Cool username btw.

[-] VanHalbgott@lemmus.org 3 points 5 months ago

Thanks.

I’m currently trying to forget about an anime.

[-] ABCDE@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Do you need to?

[-] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com -5 points 5 months ago

Hm… often a fixation like that tells you you need love in your life or friendship. Is that possible?

[-] schmorpel@slrpnk.net 4 points 5 months ago

Not sure why downvoted. I'd say if a fixation comes with voluntary self-isolation it shows that something is amiss, although it might not be the lack of love.

I found that I very much hide inside of my obscure interests when subconsciously talking about important stuff with my loved ones.

[-] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com 3 points 5 months ago

Oh wow. Yes, I didnt think that either. Some people probably felt called out or misunderstood what I meant.

Obviously, it can be a range of things. I tried to factor in what things are displayed in animes a lot. Often its success, reliable plot, emotion, sexuality, etc.

[-] VanHalbgott@lemmus.org 2 points 5 months ago
[-] savvywolf@pawb.social 9 points 5 months ago

For me it's a topic I get obsessed about for a few days or weeks then switch to something else.

Usually I spend my time just reading the wiki of my current interest, and I think it helps with stress?

[-] dmMeYourNudes@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 5 months ago

It’s like a special interest that you memorize loads of data about. For me it’s fish and aquariums… I fucking love aquariums

[-] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago

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[-] ques0@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Currently Brandon Sanderson audiobooks, but usually videogames

[-] WillRegex@lemm.ee 5 points 5 months ago

A fixation is something I am eager to interact with it a majority of the time, often to the exclusion of other stuff I need or want.

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