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Does anyone else struggle with trans discord servers? I've mostly given up on them because of how cliquey they get. I also feel like there's a lot of tone policing that turns into dog piling. I feel more at home in nonqueer groups at this point which makes it hard to find places where I can fully express myself as an enby. The best experiences I've had are in art communities that happen to have queer people because everyone is pretty expressive.

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[–] StrassMav@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 13 hours ago

Discord is a terrible place, so it is not surprising to hear of other negative experiences.

You may have a better time on Stoat. Last time I checked it out(avoid the main server) the people were quite lovely. Wherever you end up, remember that you are valid and you are doing great!

[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

try matrix, 196 has public chatrooms i help moderate, and you can apply for the genderverse rooms that ada and kaity (blahaj admins) run, both are full of cool queer peeps

196 space: https://matrix.to/#%2F%217ApakjBY%5C_Px9RWqFw4R3%5C_GZWszdlNAsAUcenCeja4mQ%3Fvia=catgirl.cloud&via=matrix.org&via=chat.blahaj.zone

genderverse applications: https://matrix.to/#/#gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone

[–] thestrike@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I’m having some trouble joining the 196 space from 4d2.org, is it defederated or something?

[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

i know we have people with 4d2 accounts in 196, could you try and dm me @erotador:catgirl.cloud and i can invite you directly to the space if you want.

Thanks I'll check it out. It's probably a good idea to get away from Discord