May I advise doing the exact opposite?
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It's going to be hard for him to share his trauma if he's still panting.
If all the sharing is done before all the panting, the waiting can be skipped and the parts involved can go straight to the orgasms.
Visited a girl at her home, 3rd date, we got to talking and I shared my trauma of my previous relationship with a borderline girl 10 year prior that fucked me up. She listened and was super supportive. Helped me a lot talking with her about it. But she also said, right after, that she could not date me anymore. Got the ambivalent feeling sharing had helped me move on from some things, but also ruined our chances somehow. I don't regret it. Just how it is.
I've had things like this happen too. I learned to stop sharing pretty early on. Getting laid regularly does a lot more for my state of mind than getting trauma off my chest. Fortunately I'm older now and have good friends who I can open up to about anything if I need to.
That's a heartbreaking lesson to take away from this. My relationships with men have always been stronger for being vulnerable with each other. I'm glad you have friends that you can open up to <3
Just from the comments I read of yours you seem like you're one of the rare safe people. Thanks for being cool too the people in your life
<3 thank you for saying so, I really try.
It is what it is. I don't really blame them because I don't think they were intentionally doing it to be cruel, it just happened, I can't control what turns me on or off either. It's just frustrating that it happened often enough that it's something I have to think about.
My guess is it was less about the fact. you shared, or what you shared, but the timing (very early in getting to know you) of it?
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