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[–] PixeIOrange@lemmy.world 30 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Im dull, why is it just a photo

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[–] FosterMolasses@leminal.space 1 points 2 weeks ago

Forgot to check this out as the video didn't load first time.

The bees sound so happy! 🐝💕

[–] zamithal@programming.dev 18 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

Please tell me more!

I tried setting up a small bee box for mason bees last year but received no visitors. Any advice? It's a small premade kit from our local garden shop. It comes with tubes and a sheltered post I've added in the corner of the yard near some mud they could fill the tubes with

I am attempting to landscape my yard for pollinators. I'd like to build a hive for bumblebees as well someday

[–] PixeIOrange@lemmy.world 16 points 3 weeks ago (12 children)

I think if its not well visited, there is no demand/customers. Are there other small holes/pipes anywhere near the site that they already use?

Maybe its because of the mass species extinction happening right now..

[–] zamithal@programming.dev 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

That's sad :( I live in suburbia so I can't really see everything in my neighbors yard or control how they use pesticides.

The yard closest to the bee box is filled with fruit trees and grape vines which I would think was cool if I was a bee.

The far yard is just boring grass likely drenched in roundup or something for dandelions

[–] PixeIOrange@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

I would suggest let it hang, some guests arent visible at first like spiders.

Maybe they just didnt find it? I wish you good luck

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[–] Hello_there@fedia.io 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Make sure you are planting native species. Native bees don't get what they need from the 'pretty' plants you buy at big box store

[–] zamithal@programming.dev 4 points 3 weeks ago

Yes, we are going for exclusively native plants (except the plants planted by the previous home owners)

[–] ctry21@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

How deep is it? I bought a cheap pre-made one from a bargain shop before learning they need to be about 15cm deep to help them avoid predators, else it's very unlikely anything will want to visit

[–] zamithal@programming.dev 3 points 3 weeks ago

It's fairly deep. It has premade tubes that are pretty long and you can swap out each year but they got wet over winter so I'm a little glad nobody moved in this year at least

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

You can order mason bees online. Order some before spring next year. They're adorable when they first emerge from their cocoons--so tiny.

[–] zamithal@programming.dev 4 points 3 weeks ago

I think I'll do this! I'm not sure if there are any mason bees actually around here but plenty of other species

[–] HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Maybe there's not a good enough reason for them to be near it in the first place?

[–] zamithal@programming.dev 7 points 3 weeks ago

There are a bunch of flowering bushes I see bees frequently visit but I'm not sure on mason bees in particular

[–] ramjambamalam@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Is there any mud nearby? If not, you can mix some up and leave it near the bee house for the mason bees to build with.

Also, plant early pollinators.

[–] Forester@pawb.social 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Are you killing your dandelions and other pollinators that we call weeds for stupid reasons?

[–] zamithal@programming.dev 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

We leave the dandelions for as long as possible without angering the neighbors who appreciate dandelions less

[–] kbobabob@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 weeks ago

We would always get an HOA violation notice, then we'd have 30 days to do something, so I just waited 29 days then took a picture and sent it. Rinse and repeat as they can't do anything if it's not for the exact same violation. I hate HOAs so much and will abuse their stupid system as best as I am able.

[–] FosterMolasses@leminal.space 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Uhhhhh... this is not dull at all. This is freaking awesome.

You should be bragging like a mofo on a community called "Extra cool shit" or something lol

[–] PixeIOrange@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

But im dull but thank you :)

[–] markz@suppo.fi 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] PixeIOrange@lemmy.world 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

They seem to be mason bees. I dont know if the translation is correct, in german its mauerbiene.

[–] PixeIOrange@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Late visitor bonus: a mason bee. I love their little claws

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[–] FosterMolasses@leminal.space 3 points 3 weeks ago

such fuzz much wow

[–] ohulancutash@feddit.uk 2 points 3 weeks ago

Needs the claws to pull off the handshake.

[–] Grass@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

bees are nice. what kind uses the pinecone? I only have tubes in mine.

[–] PixeIOrange@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

I think the pinecones are for other guests than bees, the bees use pipes/holes normally. Like spiders.

I did a little research and these hotels are not good for them for some reasons. (Wrong wood, prone to mold etc.) But since its hanging in a somewhat sheltering spot and the bees are eagerly doing their things so i ler them do.

I think for next year i build a better version.

[–] bluesheep@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

How do you know if it's in use (ignoring the one single bee I see in the picture)? The filled in tubes?

[–] 8oow3291d@feddit.dk 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

The sealed up tubes contain mason bee eggs and food, yes. Which will emerge in spring.

[–] bluesheep@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Very cool! Do they not build their own hives or is building something like this just a "courtesy" to the bees?

[–] 8oow3291d@feddit.dk 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

They are a species of solitary bees, living their whole lives alone (like the vast majority of insects). Not all types of bees live in eusocial hives.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eusociality

[–] PixeIOrange@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yes, the tubes and some bees flying around. tried to upload a vid with more bees flying but i guess its too big

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 4 points 3 weeks ago

I'm up to three bee houses now. I started with mason bees and leafcutter bees. Now those have both have self-sustaining populations (I originally bought bee cocoons) and some local species which I had not expected to make themselves home have showed up as well. All happily sharing the houses.

[–] HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Homemade? Any specific things you have to keep in mind or is it just about the spaces?

[–] PixeIOrange@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

I bought it from amazon and hung it onto my balcony. They do everything by themselve, i just watch

[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago

Last year I had mystery bees coming and going from an unused compost bin. Took photos and showed them to an etymologist. He identified them as chocolate mining bees (no, no chocolate is being mined). I was pleased to see them hanging out in my garden. I keep a few corners of rough ground with piles of sticks etc to offer shelter for bumblers and others; it was funny to see these bees deciding the bin was better.

[–] fireweed@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I have heard that bee hotels can spread disease (can anyone verify?). Any thoughts/plans on cleaning or refreshing the rooms?

[–] PixeIOrange@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

I know these hotels arent optimal but it works very well for now. They are tidying and refilling the tubes very well it seems.

I think if problems occur and i realize it ill go to action but not for now.

[–] FreeBeard@slrpnk.net 2 points 3 weeks ago

Hey, nice work. Are you aware that pinecones can house predatorial species feeding on bees? This is not a problem to the population but it might be an ethical predicament :D

[–] Transform2942@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 weeks ago

Big beautiful bee hotel for the pollinators folks. We love our native pollinators!

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