I'm not sure I agree. Let me explain.
One one hand, when I moved to Europe many years ago, I had one of the criteria for choosing a country as "a country that spends the least on military". It resonated with my values, and it was important.
Things have changed since then. Many countries are now obstaining from full-on support of Ukraine, and why? Because they're afraid to displease Putin with his nuclear arsenal.
So, as of now, do we want peace? Yes. And this is great. Sadly, we need to wake up from the pleasant days and grow some teeth if we want to continue living in peace. Russia is conducting information war, sabotage, spying and assassinations in Europe already. The war is here already. A switch of mindset is required where you want peace but you're ready to defend it with weapons and even deaths of your own citizens such as you and me - if you want it to last. ~"A tolerant society should not tolerate the intolerant".