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"It's a very empathetic place," she says of Reddit. "For my wedding, I've found help emotionally, logistically and inspiration-wise."
Empathetic? Really?! On reddit?!!
Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of good people still using it. But there are a ton of assholes and trolls poisoning a lot of discussions, deliberately antagonizing people, or derailing conversations with pedantic bullshit.
If she thinks Reddit is empathetic she'd be blown away by most of the Fediverse.
Reddit had a lot of really friendly "femme leaning" communities. Especially the smaller ones. If you were only going to Reddit for nail painting and wedding inspiration it was actually really wholesome. Those communities tended to be 1) very well modded 2) "easy" to mod 3) not fun to troll. There's a little grey area on if someone is offering good faith critique, but if you've commented twice and neither have been positive you lose the privilege to comment. It can create a bit of a hugbox, but it's much preferred to the opposite.
I really like my experience with the fediverse so far, but I really miss the experience of those positive "femme" spaces. It's a very different feeling and I haven't gotten it from the fediverse yet. Not that we're not empathetic, just that it's a different space.
Hmm, interesting. Thanks for the insight.
Smaller subs definitely had plenty of empathetic people, but if you're going in the bigger subs, its a cesspool of scum and villainy.
It really depends on the community to be fair. Smaller ones feel more like here.
At that point, why not just be here though.
In both the US and the UK women account for more than 50% of Reddit users.
That is a twist I did not see coming.
Honestly it doesn't suprise me. Women seem to have all the social medias while the men I've met only tend to have a few of them.
Sample size is probably like 100 per gender but it's definitely something I've noticed at least.
All the men left for fed or Lemmy already?
Their capture by US feds and banning people who speak out against US foreign influence operations would lead me to believe otherwise.
Shit is shit. I don't care if it was defecated by human or robot.
After leaving reddit, i've kept an account. Every so often I go on there and generate some slop and post it. Usually run it through 2 models, at least one obscure HF one. So far, nobody noticed.
These ~~paid advertisements~~ articles are funny, because they basically just admit they can't tell the difference and are publicly stating this. Heh, slopgobblers