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[-] 9point6@lemmy.world 61 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Can we all agree that people that send voice notes for no good reason are the worst?

No I don't want to find some time to sit through your 5 minute ramble.

[-] DaMonsterKnees@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

Forgive me, friend, but I am not familiar. You're saying they send like... like... voice-mail? Fucking monsters.

The text doesn't do my sentiment credit. I, too, would hate those people. My boss does this. Hostages people in conversations. I don't want to be your fucking soundboard for 47 minutes mate!

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[-] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 31 points 11 months ago

I call it "stream of consciousness texting", and it drives me berserk.

[-] NoIWontPickaName@kbin.social 15 points 11 months ago

It’s ADD, you get a text for every new thing that pops into our heads.

Welcome to the club!

[-] schmidtster@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago

Some people also don’t like getting a wall of text, smaller text messages (think paragraph size) can be easier to scroll, digest and respond too.

Sometimes it’s the same thought, sometimes it’s multiple. I’ve never had someone ask me to put multiple messages in one to make it easier to deal with. Usually want them broken down.

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[-] shneancy@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

add has nothing to do with your ability to not hit send every third word

you can write it all out in one message, or a few messages if something new pops into your head, i promise

[-] NoIWontPickaName@kbin.social 2 points 11 months ago

I think whoever is doing that is fucking with you.

We can finish whole sentences, lots of them, we just get this anxiety that you won’t understand because our brains are broken, so we keep adding more to try and get our point across and then we realize we have sent too much, so then we have to explain that.

It’s just a bunch of snowballing into a negative feedback loop after that, that’s when we stop all the texting and just try to figure out what the hell is wrong with us and how to fix it.

But hey, hyper focus is almost a superpower!😁😞

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[-] K0W4LSK1@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 11 months ago

I prefer it over the paragraphs to be honest breaks up the info and helps my shitty eyes read it better

[-] Jesus_666@feddit.de 45 points 11 months ago

It depends

some people

don't even send

whole sentences

sometimes

just single words

gotta find

out

where the sentences end

no punctuation either

y'know

so

that's kinda annoying

[-] K0W4LSK1@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 11 months ago

Lmao you got me with that one fuck thats annoying

[-] Andrew15_5@mander.xyz 2 points 11 months ago

Insert an empty line. Problem?

[-] tdawg@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago

Honestly it depends on the context. If my good buddy is sending me their thoughts on a really bad piece of media then ya I want the stream of consciousness take. But if this is a random text from an acquaintance then it better be in as few chunks as possible

[-] Makeitstop@lemmy.world 12 points 11 months ago

Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra

[-] dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago
[-] pete_the_cat@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

"Not the size of your arms,my arms!"

[-] Fades@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago

stop sending me so many messages!

Mirab, with sails unfurled

[-] saltnotsugar@lemm.ee 12 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Hey.

Saw your text.

What time?

Oh wait I see it.

Hmmmm.

(Gif of giraffe on roller skates)

I think it’s okay.

Maybe.

[-] Donkter@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Edit: this was meant to be a gif.

[-] Fades@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago
[-] idunnololz@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago
[-] idunnololz@lemmy.world 13 points 11 months ago
[-] idunnololz@lemmy.world 12 points 11 months ago

Do you not have unlimited texts?

[-] idunnololz@lemmy.world 13 points 11 months ago
[-] STUPIDVIPGUY@lemmy.world 17 points 11 months ago

to answer your question, it's just annoying to get 8 notifications when it can just be one

[-] marcos@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

The apps really should handle that better.

[-] Fades@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

yes seriously, if you get a message - send an alert, after so many "rapid" messages (x amount of seconds, should be user configurable) the notifications stop and it instead monitors and after a certain time period then it gives you a notif "received x messages from y in the last z time units" if the messages haven't yet been viewed.

So easy, low hanging fruit, but oh well I guess

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[-] GrammatonCleric@lemmy.world 8 points 11 months ago

It's embarrassing in a public space or if you're trying to get something done

[-] XbSuper@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago

My rule when someone does this, is to not respond for at least an hour. Doesn't matter what they said, or how urgent the matter is (unless it's a true emergency), 1 hour minimum.

[-] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 8 points 11 months ago

What gets me is that most apps I've seen do not use the full screen width to display messages. On a phone, in portrait mode, the screen is small enough, but the apps only use about 75% of the screen width. when they could use more. THis makes walls of text/paragraphs even more difficult to read.

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 8 points 11 months ago

I

Sometimes

Run

Into

People

Who

Text

Like

This

And

My

God

Is

It

Annoying!

😬

[-] Waker@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

This is me, I'm sorry

My brother hates when I do it, he straight up mutes me on discord for a day or so if I do it hahaha Probably other people too... As someone said here, it's probably my ADHD, never thought about it in that way but it does make sense.

I've been trying to cut down on the amount I send though. Keeping things concise, as much as I can.

[-] quotheraven404@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

Thanks, this post inspired me to find a new text notification sound.

[-] MimicJar@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

"None" is my favorite sound. I'm looking at my phone enough, I'll get it when I get it.

[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 4 points 11 months ago

I honestly think this is a bit of a generational gap. I grew up in the 90s and remember when "PCS" phones (the kind that started the whole personal cellphone thing for the masses) did not have text messaging. Then, later, some did, others didn't.

Eventually, every phone and carrier supported SMS. IMO, that's partly because they charged per message. Shortly after that, some carriers offered a friends and family texting plan, where you could set a small amount of phone numbers (I think 5 was common) that would be unlimited texting, everyone else you texted was some small amount per message.

Pretty quickly that was followed with unlimited texting plans.

Almost immediately after that long form texting, aka MMS was introduced, but it was problematic from day one..... You could also send multimedia over MMS, like pictures.... They were compressed to hell, but it worked.... Sometimes.

Everything went RCS and data driven chats after that.

The key point I'm driving at is that early texting, aka SMS, was limited to a maximum of 160 characters, which might just be able to contain the jist of a sentence. If you grew up before sms became a thing, long form may suit you better than alternatives. If you grew up with SMS, you probably have a learned behavior that text based messages should be pretty short and to the point, so many small-ish messages are probably required.

I am excited to see what happens with those that didn't have to limit their messages to 160 characters, grow up.

I'm more or less on the cusp of the technology. I was subscribed pretty early on in my youth, so I'm kind of both but also nether. Anyways...

[-] Unforeseen@sh.itjust.works 10 points 11 months ago

In my experience the biggest reason texts were short wasn't the limit but the fact that we grew up having to text on a telephone keypad so it took forever.

You became u, etc.

[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 3 points 11 months ago
[-] MadBob@feddit.nl 2 points 11 months ago

I remember trying to find a decent T9 keyboard for Android a while ago but failing. Maybe I'll have another look.

[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 3 points 11 months ago
[-] Unforeseen@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago

Yes T9! Ty I couldn't remember what it was called.

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[-] Gork@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago

Or those who text in pentameter's beat.

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[-] Sombyr@lemmy.one 3 points 11 months ago

I text multiple paragraph texts back to back over and over again. I'm told even being that verbose I'm still completely incomprehensible most of the time.

[-] lanolinoil@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago

What does this even mean

[-] STUPIDVIPGUY@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

(assumption)

ah you're one of those people who speaks in an unintuitive manner because you think a big vocabulary is better

but you have not considered that succinct and understandable is better

[-] Sombyr@lemmy.one 3 points 11 months ago

It's partially that, but I more use obscure definitions for words rather than their intuitive ones. The issue is I don't know what the average person will understand.

The bigger problem is probably that I'm super autistic and expect people to know what I'm thinking just because I know it. I write a thousand paragraphs clarifying useless details to try to be clear, and then somebody will be like "Okay, but you never even once mentioned what it is you're talking about," and I'll be like "Oh, I assumed by the fact that I said I was excited and mentioned several things that don't happen in real life that it was clear I was talking about a new game I was enjoying."
I never know what details are actually useful to clarify until somebody's getting confused about one of them (or usually more like 50 of them.)

[-] STUPIDVIPGUY@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

Yeah I can relate a little bit. I was never that bad but I was kind of like that as a teenager and I am ever so slightly autistic, I think.

Think of caveman. Why use many word when few do trick? Even if it doesn't feel like your natural flow of consciousness, try to channel him, and simplify.

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