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[–] Dalvoron@lemmy.zip 32 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

In Ireland, being "not too bad" is a mark of considerable wellbeing

[–] Noctambulist@lemmy.world 19 points 2 weeks ago

Similar to the German “can’t complain”.

[–] Bougie_Birdie@piefed.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 weeks ago

This is my preferred response in Canada. Historically, a pretty big Irish community near where I live.

We get a lot of foreign workers at my job, and when I tell them "not too bad" they become concerned. It's honestly kind of touching

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 19 points 2 weeks ago

I answered with "still breathing" a few days ago, but I got into a coughing fit, so I'm not sure how they thought about it.

[–] I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Sigtro@lemmy.world 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] KurtVonnegut@mander.xyz 9 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] SanctimoniousApe@lemmings.world 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Norwegian Potatoes vs Danish potatos?

[–] bus_factor@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago

The difference is that the Danish speak with the potato in their mouth.

[–] untorquer@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

In Norway a potato is a "Jack of all trades" instead of the American interpretation of slow, lazy, or outdated/old.

[–] tordenflesk@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)
[–] SanctimoniousApe@lemmings.world 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You're right - our current reality definitely calls for crying... lots of crying.

[–] tordenflesk@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

I meant that "up and not crying" isn't an actual thing.

[–] Nikko882@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

Dunno about you, but I have heard "oppe og ikke gråter" from my parents (vikværsk dialekt). I thought it was something only they said until I saw this picture the first time, though. So I can confirm it is a real thing.

[–] espentan@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

It is indeed a norwegian expression, probably not in frequent use, anymore, though.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah, that was my initial reaction too, as I couldn't recall ever hearing something similar.

[–] fatalicus@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

It definitely is. Got at coworker who uses that as a treating every time we talk. There are also others I have heard say the same.

It seems to be a regional thing though, so might just not be a thing in your area.

[–] chonomaiwokurae@sopuli.xyz 9 points 2 weeks ago

This makes me think of a particular Finnish way of greeting: Oh you’re still alive!

[–] mech@feddit.org 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

In Germany, possible answers to "How's it going" are
"It has to"
"I'm alive"
"according to the circumstances"
But you always risk getting an honest answer, too.

[–] stiffyGlitch@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I went to Germany once. I asked a man, "do you know where the train station is?" to which he replied, "Of course I know where it is." and walked away. people are nice.

[–] mech@feddit.org 4 points 2 weeks ago

You asked a question, you got a precise and correct answer. I see nothing wrong here.

[–] Hacksaw@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Oh, then could you tell me where it is?

"Naturally, it would be easy to do!"

[–] Evotech@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

As a norwegian I've never heard this

Same. And if I were to say something like this I would say "gråter ikke" instead of "ikke gråter"

[–] none@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

In Swedish you could reply "jämna plågor", "an even amount of suffering". You're not suffering more than usual, just a regular, steady amount.

[–] toynbee@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

In the US, I've commonly heard "I'm above ground and breathing, so I'm good."

[–] stiffyGlitch@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

somebody asked me, "how's it going?" to which I replied, "you're talking to me, arent you?"

[–] toynbee@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] stiffyGlitch@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] toynbee@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] stiffyGlitch@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

what the fuck is glibness

[–] toynbee@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

I love the first two definitions here.

Glibness definition

[–] Amputret@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

I’ve started using “normal, unfortunately”.

[–] drsilverworm@midwest.social 1 points 2 weeks ago

"I'm here" is the Ohio version