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[–] RickyRigatoni@retrolemmy.com 21 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] ano_ba_to@sopuli.xyz 8 points 22 hours ago

The "Men writing women" subreddit are about sentences. "Women writing men"? They're entire novels.

[–] JamesBoeing737MAX@sopuli.xyz 3 points 19 hours ago

It's a continuum then.

[–] ignotum@lemmy.world 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Some men after finding out what women's romance novels are actually like:

[–] sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 day ago

Some men should watch Heated Rivalry with their significant others. Great bonding experience.

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 34 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Okay, so what are they actually like? I have no clue.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 36 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Porn. It's written porn, with more story.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 19 points 1 day ago

And why would I be shocked at someone reading erotic fiction?

[–] DahGangalang@infosec.pub 14 points 1 day ago

"More" story

It's not the lack of story that bores the heck out of me in porn made for men. It's how incredibly stupid it is.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 36 points 1 day ago (5 children)

I noticed in high school that a lot of the romance novels involve rape. Like a crazy amount of them start the sexual relationship between the man and woman with rape. Then the woman eventually falls for him.

I am assuming that type of shit.

[–] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 8 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

That was a huge thing in the 80s. Even my mom was into that crap. Not really around that much anymore, from what I can see. Now it's all hot asshole billionaire high school students.

[–] NaibofTabr@infosec.pub 24 points 1 day ago

It's OK as long as he's attractive. Or rich. Or both.

Ew, I won't start reading them in this case.

[–] fonix232@fedia.io 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nope, most will at most have CNC, albeit some might come in weirdly justified ways (e.g. in Lights Out the FMC ponders that her commenting on the MMC's thirst trap videos that she'd like him to break into her home etc., was explicit consent for him to do so).

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

you will have to help me with all these acronyms.

[–] zaphod@sopuli.xyz 5 points 17 hours ago

CNC: Computer Numerical Control

FMC: Fluoromethcathinone (drugs)

MMC: MultiMediaCard (old memory card format like SD cards)

Women are into weird shit.

[–] plateee@piefed.social 29 points 1 day ago (2 children)

They tend to be fairly sexually explicit - think fanfic levels.

At least that's been my experience.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 2 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

the cover gives it away if its not obvious, always portray a half naked WHITE male, athletic or well built. it borders on the edge porn if not just porn in book form.

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I need to start reading romantic novels

[–] fonix232@fedia.io 7 points 1 day ago

Hit me up if you want recommendations.

[–] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

Dick and balls man. Dick, and balls.

[–] bonenode@piefed.social 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That explains a lot!

[–] BurnedDonutHole@ani.social 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Me too... And I'm afraid to ask.

[–] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I'm not. Spill the beans. We talking nothing but 50 shades here or something?

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Honesty I'd like to know as well

[–] baronvonj@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

It's literally rule 34 monster porn, but in print.

[–] cannedtuna@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I’ve heard series like Fourth Wing and Crown of Thorns can be pretty graphic, particularly the former.

[–] fonix232@fedia.io 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Eh, Fourth Wing was pretty mild. The later books are more explicit in the wording, intentionally avoiding the use of "dirty words" and instead choosing a prosaic description of events.

And tbf the entire Empyrean series is pretty mid overall. Up until the second part of Iron Flame it was super predictable and downright boring, formulaic, with a nothingburger story.

Quicksilver is much better, and the spice is much spicier. Oh and boy does it get better with Brimstone.

[–] cannedtuna@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I’ll make sure to recommend that to the person I know who likes spicy novels! Thanks