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[–] Keld@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago

I've gotten used to my neighbors screams. I am remarking on this only because she just did a big one and I heard someone outside yell in surprise. I yelled "She just does that, don't worry" which i hope they heard.

[–] la_tasalana_intissari_mata@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

only permitted to be a victim

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[–] Beetle@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Took me 7 hours to deep clean the floor today because I had to take many breaks but I still did it :)

[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago

Nice! Cleaning is such an energy-intensive task, but it can be very rewarding.

[–] DisabledAceSocialist@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I thought my periods had totally stopped. Haven't had one in months but today one started again. Guess I haven't gone through the menopause then. Still want a hysterectomy though.

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The hysterectomy will definitely help with a lot of the fibroid related issues, and on top of that with your irregular periods. I hope the doctors help you out meow-hug

[–] DisabledAceSocialist@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thank you. cuddle I'm just worried if they know I still have the occasional half-hearted period they might be less likely to do a hysterectomy. I've read so many stories about women being forced to live with terrible womb-related issues because doctors are more concerned with preserving female fertility than improving female quality of life.

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I love you, sweetie, and you deserve so much better than all of this cuddle

What I do know (only from experience, can't point to any studies or medical reports) is that fibroids can and do cause infertility. Arguing that you have those combined with a lot of hormonal issues because of your thyroid history might actually be argument enough to get the hysterectomy approved. You may have to be very adamant to get this solution, but I believe in you.

[–] DisabledAceSocialist@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thanks, love you too. meow-hug

I will definitely try, no idea how long until I get an appointment though.

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

I keep my fingers crossed that it won't take too long cuddle

[–] Veggie_Deluxe@hexbear.net 3 points 2 weeks ago

I really feel like i am in hell, or trapped in some kind of dark mirror that innocent youths gaze into to see the depths of misery that await the vile sinner. New Katamari is p good tho katamari-roll

[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

[https://hexbear.net/post/6621057](New Mega)

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