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I have 2 GOP parents, one that voted Trump originally and one that did not. Over the last 9 years, I have watched them both travel down the MAGA pipeline to become visibly fascist. The parents who taught me racism was wrong and to have empathy for others, have become openly hostile about immigrants, Muslims, and even parrot the Nazi "great replacement" theory.

Part and parcel with this, they refuse to have any discussions about the facts -- like immigrants not stealing and eating people's pets. They won't hear it, they won't even engage in the conversation...they just get angry and loud the second they hear anything that doesn't fit into the Fox News narrative. Can you relate? How are you dealing with it in your relationships with your parents?

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[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My parents are consuming more red media. This seems to happen in immigrant non-english circles.

[–] Dogiedog64@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

Fascist Propaganda plays super hard on the fears and nagging doubts that come with being an immigrant. The fears of deportation, imprisonment, or worse, not fitting in. The fear that everything is for nothing because someone is always poised to steal it out from under you. The fear that you are simply too weak to make it in the world, that there are things you don't understand and never will.

It's truly insidious.

[–] Dogiedog64@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

ITT: Really depressing stories of society's decline into ChristoFascist mania and delusion.

[–] Sektor@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (6 children)

What's the cause for it? Media manipulation can't be the only one.

[–] atan@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 month ago

The ultimate cause is an economic system which is failing to meet the needs of the majority (combined with media run by, and for the minority who the economic system does serve.)

The media's real purpose at this point is to distract the majority from the real issues, and deflect any movement towards a real solution.

[–] Taalnazi@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Extreme inequality, easy scapegoat, control of virtually most large media by a few oligarchs, algorithms, lack of education on recognising desinformation... they also think they're part of the in-group rather than realising they will never be considered 'one of them' by the oligarchs.

The one answer is to cut off all hateful news from them, by any means possible.

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[–] Leather@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

I cut my Mom off. Dad was pretty deep in it too, he'd voted for Regan and Nixon, but he died before I couldn't take it anymore.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Ignore them and tell them trump is an idiot if you do talk to them and they bring it up. Watch them freak out.

Sorry, the brainwashing was too successful. You wont save them. They domt care that he raped children. They wont change their minds.

[–] sadfitzy@ttrpg.network 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I don't keep in contact with my family, but I'd have no problem telling trump supporters that they're dumbasses straight to their faces.

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[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago
[–] tlekiteki@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 month ago

Are they twits? A twit is someone who cant process more than 512 characters at once.

[–] SoloCritical@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I deal with it pretty easily, I don’t have contact with them lol.

[–] timmytbt@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

Sorry for your loss

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