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... And at worst, actively making your bedroom less functional and more cumbersome to use. The arguments I hear in favor of it are completely asinine and I will address them one by one.

  1. It makes it more comfortable to sleep in.

I have absolutely no idea where that comes from. Do you all sleep like Dracula? My bedding is usually tussled about within minutes of me laying in bed. Blankets balled up for knee support, one leg sticking out for temperature venting. I couldn't imagine sliding under the covers and laying perfectly supine like Vladimir Lenin.

  1. It doesn't take much time, so you might as well do it.

I find any task not worth my time to be a waste, so unless it has a purpose, it is actively infuriating to do.

  1. It looks nice. And an unmade bed looks lazy

Given that this is an entirely subjective reason, I can't exactly "disagree" with it. But if there was someone I trust enough to be in my bedroom, I'm not going to waste my time convincing you that I do not, in fact, sleep in my bed.

Not to mention that if you want to nap or even sit on the end of the bed, you have to make it again. It is an incredibly unstable artwork, making me avoid using my bed unless I really need to.

If you make your bed, I have no judgment for you. Just like people who fold designs into the ends of their toilet paper. I couldn't imagine caring about something like that, but it literally doesn't affect me at all, so go nuts.

But I think we should be honest and call it what it is: some kind of shameful cleaning ritual that is probably some vestigial military chore, and I want nothing to do with it.

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[–] Pandantic@midwest.social 2 points 1 week ago

But have you considered not wanting to lose something you toss on the bed?

[–] SonOfAntenora@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

You don't need to remake the bed just for sitting on it, you just need to adjust the bed sheets for five seconds.

[–] janus2@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago
[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

My SO hates sheet wrinkles so for them it’s not performative.

I’d be fine with an assortment or flat sheets and blankets loosely rolled into a ball that I could both lay inside or on top of.

[–] Feyd@programming.dev 2 points 1 week ago
  1. I rotate when I sleep so if the sheets etc aren't tucked in I'll rotate them off the bed then wake up cold.
  2. I have dogs and having the comforter covering the entire bed keeps the parts I touch clean and comfortable
[–] Pulptastic@midwest.social 1 points 1 week ago

If you tuck in your bed every morning you have a nice tucked bed with fewer wrinkles at night. Yes I am a princess, yes that is a pea, and so I am making my bed and tucking the edges. Grandma would be proud.

[–] aturtlesdream@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I make my bed because my dog likes to lie in my bed during the day and this keeps the majority of his hair/dirt/dander off my sheets and on top of an easily washable blanket. Also, it prevents lots of wrinkles and lumps in the sheets/blankets when sleeping. Both bother me and my sensory issues, especially because I sleep in the buff and my skin is sensitive to whatever is directly touching it. I can't even leave my room in the morning without making my bed because it feels wrong in my head, I don't make it for anyone but myself

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Must feel great not to have homework for a few months! I remember that.

[–] half_built_pyramids@lemmy.world -2 points 1 week ago

It makes it more comfortable to sleep in.

I have absolutely no idea where that comes from. Do you all sleep like Dracula? My bedding is usually tussled about within minutes of me laying in bed. Blankets balled up for knee support, one leg sticking out for temperature venting. I couldn’t imagine sliding under the covers and laying perfectly supine like Vladimir Lenin.

You fold your clothes after you clean them? Why, your clothes are just going to get wrinkled anyway.

You eat your food without blending it all up in a blender first? Why, your stomach mixes it all up anyway.

You take a shower? Why, you're just going to get dirty again anyway.

You wash your hands after you shit? Why, you're just going to shit again the next day.

You make slippery slope arguments? Why, you can just frame them as unpopular opinions.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world -3 points 1 week ago

Spiders like all the little folds in a messy bed

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