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Not the first time this has happened either, here's another similar case in Atlanta: https://abcnews.go.com/US/mother-boy-killed-hit-run-driver-probation-community/story?id=14158040

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[–] ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

When I was 10 my parents never let me out unsupervised and we didn’t even live near a busy road

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[–] nanook@friendica.eskimo.com 43 points 1 day ago (39 children)

@HiddenLayer555 This is a messed up era. When I was a kid from kindergarten and up I walked to school alone. It wasn't a super long distance, about six blocks each way but it was unsupervised, and that was the norm back then. What has happened that it has become so dangerous that kids need to be bussed to school even if they're three blocks from the school?

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[–] lily33@lemm.ee 108 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (13 children)

after allowing him and his brother, 10, to walk home unaccompanied by an adult from a nearby grocery store.

Wtf, are kids 10 and 7 not old enough to walk by themselves to the grocery store now?

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 49 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Meanwhile all the boomers talk about how they have such find memories of walking around unsupervised until the streetlights came on or whatever lame Facebook nostalgia meme they're parroting

[–] LemmyIsReddit2Point0@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago

Sorry I'm not following. Are you saying the boomers experienced it and pulled up the ladder like dickheads? Or that anyone who had freedom as a child is a boomer with irresponsible parents? I'm confused.

[–] Signtist@bookwormstory.social 46 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

Yeah, I remember when I was 7 I'd explore everywhere around my house for at least a few miles. There was a convenience store 2 miles out where I'd buy candy any time I'd scrounged up a few dollars of change.

What happened was terrible, but it was an accident nevertheless. Nobody should have to serve time, especially not the grieving parents.

[–] douglasg14b@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

Same, having the freedom to ride my bike wherever I could and meet and play with other kids was crucial to my social and personal development.

[–] phantomwise@lemmy.ml 28 points 1 day ago

Those who design american neighborhoods to be so car centric definitely should.

[–] TankieTanuki@hexbear.net 33 points 1 day ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Yeah, but that was just a few miles. These boys walked...

*Checks notes*

The Food Lion store is two blocks away from their home.

jesus-christ

[–] whostosay@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago

It's fucking insane that anyone thought to charge them, let alone actually follow through with it. Multiple people have to have agreed for this to be reality. Another shit stain on humanity

[–] Genius@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 day ago

The CEO of the company that built the car should serve time

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[–] PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 134 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

The thing is, once car-centrism is established and normalized, it's so hard to explain to people what the real problem is. Clearly the kid did a stupid thing and ran into the road when it shouldn't. Clearly the driver had no bad intentions.

But somehow the thought never occurs to people that kids (and adults) will always be stupid and we shouldn't strive to make a world where nobody makes mistakes. We should strive to make a world where making mistakes doesn't kill you.

[–] bitwolf@sh.itjust.works 5 points 14 hours ago

Agreed. As I read this I pictured the four lane stroad they likely had to cross.

If the roads were safer for pedestrians they'd be able to walk around without dying.

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 52 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (7 children)

EDIT: Leaving this up for clarity, but I did in fact read the wrong link from the post. The above commenter is correct. Carry on and have a good day.

Clearly the driver had no bad intentions.

I hate to break it to you, but:

Jerry Guy, the man who hit the family and never stopped, reportedly admitted drinking "a little" alcohol earlier in the day. He also admitted to being on painkillers and being partially blind in one eye.

Guy had been convicted of two previous hit and run accidents. He pleaded guilty to the hit and run that took A.J.'s life and served six months in jail.

In a world without cars this man wouldn’t have killed a child with his decisions. But this is still gross negligence, especially the multiple hit-and-run charges.

I do agree that if anything this is a great case for pushing public transit and eliminating car centrism. But to not stop/pull over, multiple times, is its own level of selfishness.

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[–] JSocial@lemmy.dbzer0.com 55 points 1 day ago (14 children)

there is no evidence of speeding or wrongdoing on the part of the driver, therefore no charges have been filed.

I feel like Atlanta law enforcement might need a refresher on what "wrongdoing" means.

[–] gabriel@col.social 22 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 32 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I have watched children be bussed across a stroad rather than making it safe for kids to cross

[–] adarza@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

more than one place i've lived at had a busy road be the 'line' separating bus vs walk to school. where i am now some literally get bussed across the road and then another block to the school, while some who live up to a mile away on the 'same side' of that road as the school get to walk.

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[–] Posadas@hexbear.net 23 points 1 day ago

WhY DOn'T kiDs PLAY OUtdiDe AnymOre!!!!

[–] anti_antidote@lemmy.zip 24 points 1 day ago

That's fucked up.

[–] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 15 points 1 day ago (7 children)

That 76 year old man will live with his choice to drive at age 76 for the rest of his life.

[–] buckykat@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

Which, for a man in North Carolina, will on average be -4 years

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