People will create the most creative, awesome, fantastic worlds just to stick another love triangle in there smh.
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Yeah I am not a fan either. I did find that if you filter out YA in general that gets rid of a huge portion of these romance masquerading as fantasy novels. It seems to be super prevalent there. But now YA is bleeding into adult fantasy as well and for that I end up having to read reviews to see if anyone specifically mentioned it.
Just read reviews?
I am only getting new books from library systems and these fantastical romances make up most of the new acquisitions. I don't really look forward to new book notices because it's always like 85% were-badger smut now. And then I can't even rant about it irl because I'd have to explain were-badger porn to people. 🙁.
I don't mind romance in my fantasy as long as it's done well. I found a lot of terrible and extraneous "romance" in Teen/YA fiction growing up which convinced me at the time that I disliked any romance in my fantasy. Turns out what I actually dislike is clunky sex scenes written by Mormons whose only experience is being the third at a jump hump.
Had to Google that. All of my will power has been spent not downvoting you in revenge for this new cursed knowledge. Have a good day ma'am/sir/compatriot.
Honestly if a book has 4.5 stars it could worth a try. I have my book 'rules' to avoid and there's nothing wrong not wanting read something you have no interest. Personally I like romance but I hate 16-20 old angsty stuff or even the 25+ yo 'i'm a virgin omg' kind ... so I feel your pain :)
I mean they're still fantasy books, just with a heavy lean towards romance. If your search criteria is just fantasy there's no way to know whether you want romance included or not. I get it, I'm tired of YA romance but once you know the authors to look for you can get related books that generally skew towards your preferred type of fantasy