Patient Gamers

Even though BG1 isn't as "grand" feeling as 2, I think it provides a better introduction to the admittedly not very intuitive D&D 2 mechanics. The entire intro area of BG1 is a tutorial. Additionally, you start BG2 around level 10 instead of 1, and I found this to be a bit overwhelming to begin the game with.

Something that was difficult for me to wrap my head around when it originally came out was that you will die over and over again if you treat it like an ARPG. You will need to constantly be pausing, issuing orders, unpausing, repeat. I've played the remastered versions and they include programmable AI for your characters that is worth tweaking. Also remember you can manually set auto-pause conditions - they will come in handy.

Last, I'd echo what other people have suggested in that you should try to have at least a handful of ranged characters backing up your front line fighters. Mages are extremely underpowered at low levels so they can fill this role nicely while they build up spells as the game goes on. Clerics are indispensable powerhouses. Also, keep in mind that in the D&D 2 ruleset, you will receive an attack penalty for using a weapon you're not trained in, so check what proficiencies each character has when you first get them.

Otherwise, experiment and have fun! There's a very good reason why these classics have hung around for so long. They are still very good games to experience. Yell if you get stuck, I've been playing the Infinity Engine games for decades at this point, and I'm sure others here would be happy to chime in.

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Going from bg1 to bg2 and ending it with the throne of bhaal expansion is an experience akin to the mass effect trilogy, and with a satisfying(imo) ending. Bg1 is perhaps a good game but i wouldn't call it great, you CAN start with bg2 but then you'd miss out on the full experience i would at least consider making an attempt at the first one.

As for advice, for bg1 you should get everyone in your party using ranged weapons to start with because they're super squishy at lvl1 and the enemies you encounter will also be low on hitpoints, you can transition into melee after you get a level or two and some good armor. For bg2 i think combat is super fun and while more complex it's also less up to the rolls of a single die because everyones level is much higher. If you're not into the combat there's story difficulty settings, some people say they enjoyed the game that way but it would feel empty to me.