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If anyone can find more pixels for me i would appreciate it.

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[-] BlueSquid0741@lemmy.sdf.org 48 points 1 month ago

I would have thought that “y’all” is even more so gender neutral and therefore less offensive/more accepted. It’s a contraction of “you all” right?

[-] bravesilvernest@lemmy.ml 13 points 1 month ago

Y'all has become my goto nowadays, up in the northeast

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[-] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 38 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

"y'all" fills a legitimately useful gap the English language has. Other languages have a word like this.

Edit: also something cool I just found out, some languages have a way to disinguish "we" (you and I), and "we" (me and the rest of us, not you). It's called clusivity and is missing from European languages. Many indigenous languages of the Americas and Oceania have this, as well as Vietnamese and northern dialects of Mandarin.

[-] doubtingtammy@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 month ago

Not a gap in every dialect! "Ye" is another plural second person used in Ireland

[-] Zoomboingding@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

Hear y'all hear y'all, Reggie King from o'er the holler brought pawpaw moonshine for the weddin'

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[-] pupbiru@aussie.zone 32 points 1 month ago

I’m from Australia and I’ve started calling all groups of people yall because it’s gender neutral… very unaustralian term, and I love so much the irony of iconic southern terms being used to support trans activism

[-] 0laura@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 month ago

I'm German and I use y'all all the time when speaking English. it's funny, most of my English is from the internet so it's the most crazy mix of english

[-] gnu@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 month ago

Why bother with importing y'all when we already have yous (or youse depending on how you want to spell it)? Or you could just treat 'you guys' as gender neutral, it effectively is these days with how people use it.

[-] boletus@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 month ago

Youse is too damn bogan for my taste

[-] pupbiru@aussie.zone 6 points 1 month ago

absolutely this

youse and torlet

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[-] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 7 points 1 month ago

A lot of trans femmes myself included cannot see 'guys' as gender neutral no matter how hard we try and so do not like it.

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[-] Chainweasel@lemmy.world 28 points 1 month ago
[-] So_zetta_slowpoke@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Yinz goin aht n abaht in dahntahn Picksburgh to watch da Stillers game?

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[-] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 26 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

People where I am from call everyone "you guys" - men, women, trans, doesn't matter, everyone is just "you guys" even when it's a woman addressing a group of women.

The literal meaning isn't gender neutral, but in actual practice, it 100% is.

As for "y'all" or "you all", I don't see how it could possibly be interpreted as offensive to any gender.

[-] tonyn@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 month ago

"You People" is the one to be avoided

[-] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 month ago

"howdy fuckers" is the opposite as it sounds bad on paper but in practice it goes over well (except with middle aged moms)

[-] Revan343@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 month ago

"G'day cunts" goes over either extremely well or extremely poorly, with no in-between

[-] ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one 6 points 1 month ago

Ah the classic way to say hello in Australian.

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[-] kittyjynx@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Dude is also situationally gender neutral. Saying "Hey dude" to a trans woman is misgendering her but exclaiming "Yo dude check this out!" or "Duuuude no way" is perfectly acceptable.

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[-] Mostly_Gristle@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago

This needs a line going up the Appalachians for the "You-uns" belt.

[-] chunkystyles@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 month ago

And somewhere there's "yinz".

[-] jrubal1462@mander.xyz 5 points 1 month ago

I was just about to point out that the map is missing a small "yinz" enclave around Pittsburgh/Johnstown

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[-] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 15 points 1 month ago

Yall is the genderless southern hospitality greeting.

No bullshit no hate. Only yall

[-] stardom8048@lemmy.world 30 points 1 month ago

I've used y'all intentionally as a gender neutral term for years in the south.

Lately I've even seen "y'all means all" used as a pride slogan in the south.

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[-] AceFuzzLord@lemm.ee 13 points 1 month ago

I thought y'all was just a gender neutral term combining you and all.

How would it be wrong or offensive to refer to refer to trans person as "y'all"? Genuine question.

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[-] socialpankakemix@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 month ago

as a trans person, I'm not offended by y'all in the slightest

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[-] Routhinator@startrek.website 13 points 1 month ago

How you fuckers doing, eh?

[-] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago

Y'all is the opposite of offensive for trans people. I lived in the south for a while, and I now use y'all specifically to be inclusive. I wouldn't say "you guys" is offensive to trans women, but I would say for me and likely other trans women it briefly brings to mind being misgendered in the past, so I would call it a small kindness to ube as gender neutral as possible.

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[-] littlewonder@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I'm from "you guys" but I've lived in "y'all" and now I'm forever team "y'all," regardless of where I'm living.

It's the best export from the south, except maybe Texas brisket and pecan pie.

[-] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

I mean, neither "you" nor "all" is a gendered term in any way

[-] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 month ago
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[-] 0_0j@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

Youse LOL, almost lost it when I heard it one time

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[-] Machinist@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Having exported myself from the deep South to Yankee land, "Y'all have a good one!" never fails to brighten the day of someone working a cash register.

In general, folks up here really like southern politeness. They think sugar wouldn't melt in my mouth. I get stopped in stores to talk all the time. Pretty frequently, they just give me a discount. I thought Yankees were supposed to be rude, but they're actually really nice in public.

[-] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 month ago

We are afraid to use common greetings now? How about we all refer to each other as "carbon units"?

[-] ninjaturtle@lemmy.today 6 points 1 month ago

I'm not from the south and use "y'all" all the time. Find it very useful for filling in a gap that English has and slightly faster than saying "you all". Its gender neutral in my opinion.

Never once thought of it as offensive.

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[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Y’all actually has gained particular traction in the north through the queer community. Most trans people I know use y’all even if their geographic location doesn’t indicate they should

[-] klemptor@startrek.website 6 points 1 month ago

I'm from New Jersey and have never heard anyone unironically say "youse guys". Side note we also don't call it "Joisey".

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[-] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 month ago

Second person never has a gender in English. Saying "you" should also be fine, or "thee" if you feel like getting your quaker on.

Special requests notwithstanding - the platinum rule here is just to accommodate whatever you reasonably can.

[-] beastlykings@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Am I the only one who actually looked for more pixels for this guy?

Anywho, here you go my guy:

Edit: hmmm, Lemmy seems to be compressing it. Here's a link.

[-] Olap@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

Yous in Scotland is great to wind up Proper English speakers. If they whinge they get a y'all

[-] jsomae@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago

Y'all reminds me of the bible belt. I'm not transgender but I am queer and now and then it makes me uncomfortable.

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