This came up as being discussed somewhere else but it's a conclusion I've drawn as well or had my own thoughts on
Many women are being educated to have careers "like men" today (women don't work all the same jobs as men, but that's the idea that's put out there)
So they both are often educated alongside men, and then are supposed to work alongside men. Only a couple generations ago this was not the case.
Men likewise are being educated alongside girls, and are being taught to be girls basically. They aren't taught to "be real men" except maybe retroactively sometimes after some problem arises where some "masculine skill" is demanded of them.
This at the root of it leads to a loss of "gender identity" and easily leads to people wanting to date or "marry" the same gender as them, or to switch their genders. The society itself literally has "gender dysphoria" and doesn't treat men as men or women as women. (You could by the same token call the society as a whole "gay" or "bi" in how it acts at times)
Legal barriers like the unConstitutional "Civil Rights Act" have also been erected to prevent people treating men and women differently.
So essentially without correcting these "feminist" developments, it won't be surprising to see people continue to have problems with things like "gender identity" and "who they are attracted to".