Hey, I stumbled across this post while surfing All. I don't have much experience with Autism but I am a parent. One of the coolest things about being a parent is that it is a lifelong journey of growth and development.

As you watch your child grow and learn, you are also growing and learning as a parent. You are constantly learning new things about yourself, your child, and the world. You are also making mistakes and learning from them. This process of growth and development is never-ending, and it is one of the most rewarding aspects of being a parent.

It is also important to remember that just because you are an adult does not mean that you are done with your life journey. You are still learning and growing, and your child is watching you do it. They are learning from your mistakes and your successes. They are also learning about the importance of lifelong learning and personal growth.

You're not alone. Every parent goes through tough times. My kids have more friends than I do... but I got to all their activities, play times, and events to support them. It's okay to make mistakes! Looking down the road to school, working with your son to find resources to help with those tough math problems means you'll be teaching him how to better seek help for himself in the future - this is an incredibly valuable skill that's easy to overlook in normal work. Being open and honest about the struggles you face and the ways you look for help (as you've done here) are powerful lessons for a growing child.

Very few people a really ready to become parents. You're figuring this out along the way just like everyone else. Grant yourself some grace, remember the wonderful things about your son, take care of yourself, and believe in yourself. You are strong and capable.