I prefer basing my opinions on logic, arguments, and facts over feelings. Your inability to articulate a response to certain arguments shows why this is still a debate. Further, you're relying on the idea that something is crazy to you, therefore it should be to everybody, but that's not how it works. There's racist people that use this exact type of reasoning to support their racism.

E.G.

"Black people are less than white people"

logical counterpoint logical counterpoint

"WTF do you need a reasoning that black people are less than white people"

If your position is really stronger, then it shouldn't be hard for you to make arguments in favor of it.