this post was submitted on 06 Jun 2024
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Hello new Lemmy friends!
Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.
The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.
Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.
We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!
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She’s UNBEARABLE!! She’s really letting the SI thing go to her head, she’s so cocky. “Can you believe someone came to MY house and told me they don’t like my art?” Oh okay hunny. And calling out people for hating her. She’s so cocky right now and I’m sure it has to do with the sub being gone too. I hate her so much.
I was thinking it’s actually Instagram’s house and you’re just renting the space! That story had a strange energy. She was performing. It was also very self-satisfied.
I thought the same! Like she doesn’t have a private Instagram and you don’t need a key to get in, if someone doesn’t like what you post they’re allowed to tell you because you’ve put it out there🤷🏻♀️
She’s had strange energy since she got back, she’s on too much of a high now. She’ll come crashing down.
The energy is very odd. It’s not like any I’ve seen from her before and I wonder if she’s experiencing some sense of relief. Is she thinking she’s dodged a bullet and her fraudulent business practises aren’t going to be exposed or is it riding the high of fulfilling one of her, very important, life goals? Either way it looks, to me, like this high is way too high and the crash landing is going to be hard and fast
I think it’s a bit of both actually. She’s on the high from her big moment but I also think she thinks she’s won and she’s dodged all the bullets we (and Janette) are firing at her. But she definitely hasn’t won. I just know next week is gonna be a PMDD week.
Especially when you are a public figure/ running a business page. You open yourself up to public comments including critical ones. That is what happens when you choose to "show up" on Instagram and profit from your posts on there.
Personally I don't get hateful or mean comments on my small personal page. If I did, I would block the people. But that's because it's my small personal page. People are welcome to write what they want and I am welcome to take it or leave it. But I know that if I chose to run a business page or step into the public figure spotlight, critical comments would be part of the territory. I already know I am not cut out to live in the public eye.... So you know what? I DON'T! Lol. She wants to have it both ways