I don't know exactly why its usage would come up more frequently again. But I feel bad because when I grew up, the word was used frequently, and I never made the connection to it being offensive.

I'm always terrified I'm going to say it or something else that could hurt someone or offend them. Like I wouldn't want to make someone feel bad because I'm being foolish.

On the flip side, I've never been one to let words hold so much power over me. I feel like words and language are very flexible, and so words don't bother me unless I know someone intentionally is trying to be rude towards me.

But again, that's just me, and I know for others that's not the case. So, I'm always trying to be mindful. I guess what I'm trying to say is that some people using it might not realise how it can make others feel. So try not to take it all to heart. Hopefully, it's just a phase that will pass soon enough.

Edit: one thing I have noticed is as political tensions have risen over the past decade, I feel like I've seen way more discourse online in general. I suppose that could just be a coincidence. It could be just due to more people having access to the internet overall. One thing I found when I used reddit a lot, was that sometimes young people could be the rudest and most hurtful. I sometimes wonder if it's just due to a developing brain and the emotional fluctuations people can get in their teens? I don't know