I mean, I hear you, and when I get the sound que, I look around and generally run.

I also don't throw eagles and orbitals at my teammates.

When I die, it's because I'm crowd controlling or flamethrower biggies, and someone threw an eagle or orbital at me.

I also crutch on the jump pack. Which is an issue, but have a shortened 500kg dropped literally on the charger I am flamethrower, and fuck the dude who did that.

Edit: also, to be clear, try hard is something that just isn't in me. I stick mostly to Challenging mode. So ya, I accept that I'm also playing with people who aren't tryharding.

Just seems common sense to know when your stratagem is gonna tk someone after the first time you make that mistake... unless you are intentionally griefing.