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[–] Rodeo@lemmy.ca 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Oh so that's why relationships feel like jobs.

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 5 points 2 years ago

Only if you're doing them wrong

[–] apt_install_coffee@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago

Relationships only really feel like jobs in this way when you feel your effort is not being reciprocated. Doing emotional labour for your partner is not exhausting if you feel like you are equally pulling each other up.