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It seems like all the onus is on to socialise in the meantime you are relentlessly judged for how you go about socialising or dating. I am on college right now and I am seriously struggling to make friendships. My anxiety is kinda on overdrive because of it. I am expected to know if I am welcome to come or not but if I am not supposed I am judged severely. Meanwhile there's no one really coming up to me trying to help me. You know I'd like to just once be good enough for someone to come up to me and say that they just want to be around me. Enough of the guesswork. I am tired of it. I'm in my mid 20s just give me a fucking break at this point. So much of my "disability" would just go away if people had the decency to fucking educate themselves and expect me to know everything. I put myself out there and talk to people. I've done my fucking part.

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[–] STRIKINGdebate2@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (11 children)

I am not pretending to be anyone. Trying not to care isn't a realistic solution because if I don't care then how will I meet people? The end results is me spending my days alone.

[–] rah@feddit.uk -1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (10 children)

The end results is me spending my days alone.

Have you considered the possibility that this might be the most you can achieve socially? Or even.. that you might be better off alone?

[–] STRIKINGdebate2@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (9 children)

God forbid I actually want a social life then. Expecting accommodation for my disability the penalty isolation. Fucking neurotypicals. I want a social life. I want a romantic life. The only reasons those things are supposedly unaccessible is because of the bigoted attitude of others. I am tired of being told its all my fault for not changing my behaviour enough or because I am apparently asking for too much as a person on the spectrum.

[–] DivergentHarmonics@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

You are damn right when you are frustrated, and you are damn right in expressing that. [moved the rest of this comment to the top level]

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