Hey, you and everyone reading this need to take something from me, work on yourself, get to know yourself, don't put so much energy into others and eventually you won't even want a relationship you'll be too in love with yourself to let another into that dynamic and risk it.

Decades of relationships and this is a summary of what I've learned, don't learn the hard way! Put yourself first asap, requiring another person for happiness is codependency at its finest, trust me I've been there.

Don't fret, much of the population is codependent, they just haven't realized it. It's super duper common. Society has taught us that relationships are a necessity in life so when we're not in one we feel inadequate. That's not true. You have you, and you are valuable.