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[โ€“] chickenf622@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Someone pointed out how me saying it was my fault my cat scratched and hurt me sounded like a textbook abusive relationship. Is there a way to unlearn things?

[โ€“] nylo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

there certainly is but it requires consistent intention

it sure isn't easy, but you can do it. I believe in you <3