this post was submitted on 30 Aug 2026
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Not in a patriarchal way of wanting more rights, but wanting to be them. When I see men who dress and act like old-timey gentlemen or see feminine men, I want to be like them.

When I picture my ideal self, I picture a taller, more scrawny-looking guy who's into alternative fashion.

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Funny, I always envy that women have so many choices for how they dress, and the fact they can dress like a man if they want and hardly anyone bats an eye. Men’s Clothing is pants and a shirt. Want fancy? Pants, shirt and a jacket. Want to go wild? Add a vest, and make it all black and white. Booooriing. Women have so many more options. JMO. That said, go for it. A dapper style of dress still looks cool.