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selfies, nudes, other stuff, whateversies really. if it gives you gender euphoria or brings you joy or anything like that it can go here!

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Lower rise jorts! Finally (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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And when I get the angle, distance and pose correctly, I look...kinda okay? I need some opinions on this

Also, this is a terrible matchup 😭
Jorts and a super long T-Shirt. I'm so dumb...

Please, greater powers, give me hips and a butt 🙏
Just give me a lower body half as good as my mom's, I'm begging you 😭

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[–] AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't know how old you are, but assuming you are post-puberty, your pelvis/hip bones won't widen from hrt

Damn. That's depressing. Especially with how narrowly I missed the window. Not really, because I started at the tail end of 19, but still, I do feel kinda bad.

Thanks for your kind words anyway 💜

[–] cheeseandkrakens@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hips widen until like 26. You definitely didn't miss the window

[–] AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I'd love to believe that, I really would...
But I've just heard so many conflicting reports.

Some people say hip bones are completely fused by 25, so they can widen until then.
Others say that once puberty is done, no widening or really any bone structure change is possible.
And some people anecdotally report their actual hip bones widening way past 25, even starting HRT past 30.

While I'd love to be optimistic...I think that if I expect zero change, I at least won't be too disappointed.
Thanks for your kindness, tho ❤️

[–] applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

i want it to be true so bad 😭 my boxy torso/hips have been a huge source of dysphoria for me, so if i get any hip widening/tilting i would be ecstatic. i worry so much that i wont cause i didnt start till i was 34.

[–] AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 6 days ago

Every day and every evening, I pray to the hip god to give me hips...I need those sooo bad 🙏
Also...girl. Boxy torso my ass 😭
You look beautiful. Please continue slaying 🖤

[–] guenivere@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I am a quadrogenarian who only just began their new chapter as an open transfem person, and all I wish I could tell you in a way that would connect is: Fuck all the fuckers. You're beautiful and you matter. And both your voice and your perspective are appreciated. I'm sure I'm not just speaking on my own behalf even just within the Lemmy bubble, but I share it so it's at least voiced.

[–] AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 days ago

Thank you, really ❤️
I've gotten over the fuckers and their stupid opinions, but...my dysphoria comes from within. And I'm working on it, but it still hurts. Being beautiful or even slightly desirable is something I rarely believe I do. But I'm trying 💙

Thanks for your kindness tho 🩷