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Trans Memes

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A place to post memes relating to the transgender experience.

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Trans women do be women (leminal.space)
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[–] python@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Can I be real? I'm afab and whenever I stumble into any girlposting community I absolutely can't tell whether it's intended to be from a trans-fem point of view or not. Like the posts in !femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone are perfectly relatable.

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm think femcelmemes is intended to be from a general fem point of view, it's just that the Lemmy demographics, and specifically lemmy.blahaj.zone demographics, have a lot more transfems than afab fems.

[–] TheEntity@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (4 children)

I have a legitimate question. Is the term "cis fems" frowned upon now or is "afab fems" just a personal preference of yours? In this context the former feels far more obvious to use to me. I'm probably overthinking it but I'd rather err on the side of caution.

[–] Cleisthenian@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago

I'm trans and agree that 'cis fems' is a better term, agab language is bioessentialist imo

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

TBH I just used it because you mentioned "afab" in your comment. I'm not super hip with the lingo ...

[–] libewa@feddit.org 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Regarding the „cis fems“ (no iOS, I don‘t want to type cos), cis (here) is simply the opposite of trans (across). There are reports of cis people being insulted by the term, but in my view, they have similar credibility to „I don‘t have pronouns, pronouns boy!!11!“

[–] TheEntity@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

That's my understanding too, hence why I started (over)thinking the parent commenter's choice of words. Thanks for confirming!

[–] libewa@feddit.org 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Do you congratulate for cake day on Lemmy? If so: Happy cake day! Otherwise, please disregard this message.

[–] TheEntity@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

No idea if we do it here, I don't see it much. Thank you nonetheless! I didn't even realize it's today.