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because they aren't interested.
matches and convos aren't interest. real dates are, and even then not really. even if you may behave that way, doesn't mean other people are.
most folks are bored and passively hoping that magic will happen with minimal effort from themselves. they are essentially playing the lottery and wondering why they don't win. they expect the other person do to all the work for them because they are 'worth it'.
and statistically the majority of interest on apps goes to the minority of the users who are flooded for choice, most folks on apps get nothing.