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[–] Yamees@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I don't count being polite in public small talk, I mean things like being at a party where you don't know anybody, work events, ceremonial events, those kinds of small, short hells.

[–] YawningNostalgia@thelemmy.club 1 points 3 weeks ago

It's really hard for me to meet people when it's like "what do you do" and I answer and they say "how is that" and I answer and then they ask where I'm from and then say it's rainy.
I don't think people hate small talk so much as they hate it when people are bad at small talk. A lot of awkward people will barrage you with questions and you don't even get the opportunity to ask them the question back because they just keep peppering you.

[–] blargh513@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 weeks ago

You're missing an opportunity to be irritating for your own entertainment. Don't let these go by!