My problem was that my mother was worse than him. To give you a few examples through my life.

I won a contest and ended up with a fairly expensive nick nack. It disappeared a year or so after hanging out on a shelf in my room. I spotted it a few years later at one of her friends house. I said hey thats mine but the lady got offended and said it certainly is not. Next time I was there it was gone.

When I got married my ex's grandmother let her use her grapes punch bowl. My mother stole it and we never got it back. I didn't end up with any of my child hood things. Not my band jacket or any other award I ever received. I'm sure my sister will chunk it all in the trash. She is a chip off the old rotted block.