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Hmmm... do you struggle with understanding sarcasm and figures of speech? Do you often feel like you are manually learning social norms like a robot, rather than understanding things intuitively? Does eye contact feel awkward? Do you often communicate in a literal manner and get misinterpreted as rude or blunt?
Do you feel upset or angry when plans or routines are changed/interrupted? Do you feel like you are overly hyperfixated on any specific topics or interests that you could ramble about for hours on end? Do you have problems with reading people's intentions or emotions? Do you feel like you are overly sensitive to touch, noise, sounds, taste, or textures?
These are actual questions to think about. I say this as someone who's been legitimately diagnosed since 2008. If you answered yes to all or most of these questions, it might be time to visit a doctor.
Speech lacks a physical form and thus cannot have a 'figure'
The most important question when it comes to adult autism diagnoses: can you afford to talk to a doctor? I'm pretty sure my wallet would burst into flames like a vampire entering sunlight if I walked into a psychologist's office
No, but I do think all of those things are generally kind of stupid and annoying, and frankly, boring as hell.
if anything if find the predictability of people's norms and emotional reactions to be depressing as fuck. and their intentions, to be scary in how selfish they often are.
How has getting the diagnosis helped things for you?
I was a 4-year-old still only learning how to properly communicate on an age-appropriate level, so I needed specialised therapy. I had ABA therapy to teach me facial expressions, communication, and other things. I'm also legally disabled.