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[–] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 26 points 23 hours ago (5 children)

God damnit.

I remember toting around a Linux textbook in 7th grade, because I had just started messing with it.

Same year I got my General and Advanced ham radio licenses.

Does this make me autistic?

7th grade in the US is about 12 years old.

[–] Tiral@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago

Legitimate question, no judgment. When did you first get laid? If you have yet.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 35 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

I'm not a doctor, so I won't guess, but...what's your favorite train?

[–] Speculater@lemmy.world 14 points 21 hours ago

That's easy, The Lionel No. 381E "State Brown" Passenger Cars are 🔥🔥🔥

[–] Blaster_M@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago

"Allegheny" 2-6-6-6 articulated steamer. One of the most powerful steam locos ever made, 60 of them ran regularly for 20 years. No one cares about it because it's tractive is lower (even though it has more traction) and it's not the Union Pacific Big Boy.

[–] TotalCourage007@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

I really dig futuristic ones similar to high speed rails. I do love variety between Steampunk/Solarpunk/Cyberpunk.

[–] FosterMolasses@leminal.space 1 points 12 hours ago

Same year I got my General and Advanced ham radio licenses

Damn, you sound like you were super cool haha

[–] SnapdragonBeehive@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (4 children)

Hmmm... do you struggle with understanding sarcasm and figures of speech? Do you often feel like you are manually learning social norms like a robot, rather than understanding things intuitively? Does eye contact feel awkward? Do you often communicate in a literal manner and get misinterpreted as rude or blunt?

Do you feel upset or angry when plans or routines are changed/interrupted? Do you feel like you are overly hyperfixated on any specific topics or interests that you could ramble about for hours on end? Do you have problems with reading people's intentions or emotions? Do you feel like you are overly sensitive to touch, noise, sounds, taste, or textures?

These are actual questions to think about. I say this as someone who's been legitimately diagnosed since 2008. If you answered yes to all or most of these questions, it might be time to visit a doctor.

[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 4 points 14 hours ago

figures of speech

Speech lacks a physical form and thus cannot have a 'figure'

[–] starman2112@sh.itjust.works 3 points 16 hours ago

The most important question when it comes to adult autism diagnoses: can you afford to talk to a doctor? I'm pretty sure my wallet would burst into flames like a vampire entering sunlight if I walked into a psychologist's office

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 0 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

No, but I do think all of those things are generally kind of stupid and annoying, and frankly, boring as hell.

if anything if find the predictability of people's norms and emotional reactions to be depressing as fuck. and their intentions, to be scary in how selfish they often are.

[–] bran_buckler@lemmy.world 0 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

How has getting the diagnosis helped things for you?

[–] SnapdragonBeehive@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

I was a 4-year-old still only learning how to properly communicate on an age-appropriate level, so I needed specialised therapy. I had ABA therapy to teach me facial expressions, communication, and other things. I'm also legally disabled.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -2 points 14 hours ago

no, it makes you an insufferable nerd though.