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How can you tell romantic and platonic love apart? What does it mean to fall in love with someone?

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[-] sadschmuck@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago

Beautifully put, comrade! I know this sounds like a very basic question but what is different between romantic and platonic love? Is it the sexual attraction?

[-] FourteenEyes@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago

Fun fact: they called it "Platonic" love specifically because Plato was like the one Greek philosopher who didn't take advantage of and fuck his students. He took a volcel oath because he was too focused on philosophy, and trying to ignore that asshole Diogenes who kept cramping his style by being right about everything.

[-] frankfurt_schoolgirl@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

I think this is a myth honestly. Plato fucked his students, he just thought that close relationships where you didn't have sex were the most ideal typw of relationship to have. https://learninglink.oup.com/access/content/gillis-jacobs2e-student-resources/gillis-jacobs2e-chapter-5-plato-and-same-sex-sexuality?previousFilter=all_resources

[-] sadschmuck@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

This passage is an unusual celebration of male same-sex desire by contemporary Western standards. Plato is explicitly linking manliness not with heterosexual desire but with homosexual desire.

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