Trans Joy

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the place to post trans joy!

selfies, other stuff, whateversies really. if it gives you gender euphoria or brings you joy or anything like that it can go here!

needless to say, bigots will be yeeted on sight

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Can I drop my agender husk in here? (media.piefed.ca)

submitted 2 weeks ago by Mika@piefed.ca to c/trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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[–] ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I won't report you but I think it's up to OP to decide how much (self-)deprecating humor(?) they want. This is a wholesome community and nobody gave a r/roastme-like consent. You better delete this comment before mods notice and think twice before submitting again. Or if you did obtain consent to roast OP (not gonna lie, some people are into that), make it clear.

[–] fartographer@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Just to play it safe, I deleted my comment. I didn't see how playing along with someone saying that they're dropping their husk could be offensive, and I'm still not sure that I fully understand if the words I used were offensive. I'm moreso getting the feeling that this is a safe place to be proud of who you are, and that teasing, no matter how indirect, is not the purpose of this community and is best left untold.

I feel terrible that anyone who scrolled past my comment could have felt less joyful about viewing this post. I have no clue if my words did offend anyone, but it seems obvious that my tone and intent were upsetting, and I'm truly sorry for that.