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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.
Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:
- Both “200” and “160” are 2 minutes in microwave math
- When you’re a kid, you don’t realize you’re also watching your mom and dad grow up.
- More dreams have been destroyed by alarm clocks than anything else
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How or to whom is it disrespectful if people say your current name in a mocking way and you just wanna avoid that?
I'm missing the context of people mocking the name, where was that added? OP only says 'hates dad's name'.
If people are mocking your name they are mocking you, changing your name won't stop that.
Not really; remember the then-little girl named "Abcde" by her parents whose case made the news after, I think, a flight attendant or gatekeeper or someone during her family's travels was reported to have laughed at seeing her name?
I was no longer talking about OP but just in general giving a perfectly valid reason for a name change. We don't exactly get to pick into whose families we're born and parents certainly make suboptimal decisions from time to time (if not far more frequently)...
Oh so you're completely ignoring the context of OP's decision and pretending that I'm making a blanket judgement on all name changes, glad we cleared that up.
That... was my whole point of talking; when I said this:
I was already just talking in a general manner, not about this particular case. So, generally speaking, do you then actually agree?
You weren't talking in a general manner, you invented a very specific scenario in which someone might want to change their name.
I wasn't talking generally either: I was addressing the scenario raised by OP. Stop pretending I was saying something I wasn't.