I’ve seen people say they left reddit to join Lemmy because of the toxic users. To each their own, but I personally think Lemmings aren’t much better. Some people over here can’t understand that sensitive questions can be asked without bad intent. People are way too defensive about their opinions.

It is disappointing, but it’s the better option.

And thanks to federation, if you ever do find yourself in a dumb instance like hexbear or feddit (lol), you can just swap to a new instance with no problem, and often users will naturally follow to the better instances where you don’t have content censorship .

people cry about .ml users but have no idea about hexbear lol

Most instances don’t block other instances of note though. The biggest decision you’ll have to make here realistically is “Do I want to access hexbear and/or lemmygrad” and that’s it. And Dbzer0 in their current block of feddit.org.

.ML is one of the worst instance in the fediverse, brother. Also stay away from Hexbear, Lemmygrad, and HilariousChaos.

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[–] Chana@hexbear.net 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Karl may be complaining about the fact that they asked a question about transphobic framings that was easily googled and of course now Karl's a victim because some people (none with a hexbears instance username) assumed bad faith or pushed back on the transphobia itself, where Karl repeatedly personally answered responses directed at the question the post asked as if they were directed at this Karl.

I think Karl writes like a teenager and should be seeking support and validation outside of internet forums that correctly support trans people if Karl is this fragile.