this post was submitted on 04 Apr 2026
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...kind of a bummer that I can't tell anyone in my family because half of them (including my parents) will look at me like an ATM whose job it is to set myself on fire in order to keep them warm.

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[–] hitmyspot@aussie.zone 7 points 22 hours ago

If you haven't been used to the extra money yet, tru and keep making the 'paynents' but to something to your benefit, like a saving account or to stocks or towards an objective like a holiday or other big purchase.

Once you are used to not having the payments to make, it becomes harder to save. Of you never have the money on your account, it becomes easier.