CoupleMemes

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Community dedicated to memes that often hit a little too close to home. Respect the instance rules and remember that sharing these memes with your SO might 50/50 put you in the doghouse.

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I’m on the same page (files.catbox.moe)

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[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I didn't make some objective judgement one way or the other. I laid out reasons why a relationship may take "fighting", work, or effort that wouldn't be as necessary in shorter term relationships. I also stated my preference for longer term ones.

That said, I think it may be a little telling that you jumped to defend your lifestyle choices when they weren't attacked.

[–] Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 hours ago

I guess that's my point i was making in this thread, conflating effort and fight is a big problem in US culture and a foundation of the kill or be killed mentality.