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Have you ever talked to a polycule? Most drama on earth
I find the ones that are super open to the point where it's kind of their whole personality tend to be the drama-llamas. There are plenty of polyciles out there in plain sight quite happy because they don't go around broadcasting it.
I was mostly kidding (mostly)
Oh but I actually agree with you!
Relevant YouTube video: https://youtu.be/FRIMb3PTrS0
I promise plenty avoid the drama. also my god, have you ever talked to a monogamous couple?
Maybe humans just need to be single for awhile. Seems no configuration ionic or covalent seems to work
Okay, but none of you are addressing the HOW? question. Dating apps suck now, it's so hard to meet people, where are poly people meeting!? It's literally a purely logistical question, to me. How. Where.
Queer spaces/meetups mostly! Or meeting partners' partners. Grindr gets a bad rap for not entirely undeserved reasons, but I did meet some wonderful people there too.
Queer coffee shop that also does DND nights 🤣