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Here are a few I've heard:

  • "Identifying as demisexual is just a form of slut-shaming"
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[–] InexplicableLunchFiend@hexbear.net 18 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Even before pronouns were in vogue, I've been using 'they' as a singular pronoun my entire life in colloquial language without even thinking about it. English teachers tend to be prescriptionist pedants though, obsessed more with grammar and syntax rules than with legibility and communication.

It's like they think language is a magic spell that you have to use the right formula for