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[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 30 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

A buddy of mine's grandad once got drunk with us when we were like 17ish, and told us that no matter we did, we should never join a fraternity in college.

Apparently, when he was in college, he got sucked into this cycle of hazing and sunk cost fallacy (not what he called it, but that's what I think it was). It started off pretty basic, and ended up with him and a couple other pledges being dressed as girls and servicing all of the brothers for a weekend. Including, and this is a quote, "taking it up the ass. The other two guys got some butter shoved up their first, but I didn't." Said he bled for days and couldn't tell anyone, because then they'd call him a f-slur and probably kick him out of school

I'm assuming it's not quite so bad anymore, but lemme tell you, I never once considered joining a frat after that tearful old man relived his fucking horror story to us while drunk

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Said he bled for days and couldn’t tell anyone, because then they’d call him a f***** and probably kick him out of school

Do you mind starring out the word f** like I did? It's setting off the automod.

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 day ago

Sure thing! Just changed to f-slur

[–] Frostbeard@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Sounds like a group rape with extra steps

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Poor granddad. 😐

they'd call him a f-slur and probably kick him out of school

How can the fraternity kick you out of school? Do they have that amount of authority or influence?

[–] ArachnidMania@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Probably due to it being within the times that being gay/ socialist/communist/anything non-conforming, could lead to social expulsion with no protections. Someone could probably complain to a dean and they would just rubber stamp a removal from the school. It hasn't been that long since that was the reality really.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

What an awful time to be alive.

No time has been good to be alive, ngl.